Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery! Honestly, the best birthday gift I could ask for is finally being cleared to soak in the hot tub and take my scalding hot baths again šŸ˜‚ If you know me, then you know how much I’ve missed my hot baths during recovery these past two weeks!

At first, I was told no soaking for 4 weeks, so finding out it was only 2 weeks truly felt like a win  So today’s plans include lots of relaxing, healing, hot tub time, hanging out with my hubby, and continuing to take it easy while my body recovers from surgery.

And because life has a sense of humor, I also have pelvic floor physical therapy today too… nothing says ā€œhappy 33rd birthdayā€ quite like a PT appointment 🤣 But honestly, I’m just thankful to be healing, feeling better, and moving forward in my endometriosis recovery journey one day at a time. šŸ’›

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I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagr I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagram and honestly… this one hit a little too close to home. šŸ’”

As many of you know, I’m now a little over 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery. While my surgery was successful and my surgeon did remove the endometriosis, I’m still dealing with many of the same symptoms I had before surgery. And if I’m being honest, that’s been really hard mentally and emotionally.

One of my biggest fears is that my endometriosis surgery won’t fully help and that the chronic pain, back pain, insomnia, and fatigue never truly go away. I’ve heard from so many women in the endometriosis community that healing after excision surgery can take anywhere from 2–6 months, sometimes even longer. And while that gives me hope, it’s also difficult knowing recovery and healing isn’t immediate.

Endometriosis has already taken so much from my life physically, mentally, and emotionally. I just want to feel like myself again someday. But for now, I’m continuing to trust God through this healing journey, stay consistent with pelvic floor physical therapy, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time. šŸ’›

I also wanted to share this because I know so many others silently struggle with chronic illness, chronic pain, endometriosis, fatigue, and invisible illnesses too. Healing is never linear, and every recovery journey looks different. If you’re going through something similar, please know you’re not alone. 🫶 #chronicillness #endometriosis #endometriosisawareness #chronicillnesswarrior #endometriosiswarrior
POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by binge reading psychological thriller books šŸ¤£šŸ“š

Since I’ve been laying around recovering with not much to do, I’ve spent most of my time completely hooked on some of the best psychological thriller books I’ve read in a while. Honestly, these twisty thriller novels have been the perfect distraction and now I need everyone to read them with me šŸ‘€ If you love dark thrillers, shocking endings, suspenseful books, and plot twists you NEVER see coming… add these to your TBR immediately!

šŸ“– My recent psychological thriller book recommendations:

1ļøāƒ£ Gray After Dark — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
I could NOT put this one down. Definitely my favorite thriller out of all of them! It had me on the edge of my seat from beginning to end and the twists were insane. Dark, suspenseful, creepy, and so addictive. If you love fast-paced psychological thrillers, this one is a MUST READ.

2ļøāƒ£ Drowning in Paper Flowers — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Another thriller that completely consumed me. Every time I thought I had it figured out, the story surprised me again. The ending?! Absolutely wild.

3ļøāƒ£ Her First Lie — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Such a fun and twisty thriller read! Plus there was briefly a character named Charity in it which made me weirdly excited because I NEVER find my name in books 🤣

4ļøāƒ£ The Bartender — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Loved this easy thriller read! It has multiple POVs which can sometimes lose me, but this one was done really well and kept me hooked the whole time.

5ļøāƒ£ The Missing Ones — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Probably my least favorite of the bunch, mainly because the multiple POVs got a little confusing for me. BUT the storyline was super dark, twisty, and entertaining the entire time.

If you’re into thriller books, psychological suspense novels, mystery books with shocking twists, or binge-worthy reads that keep you up way too late… save this list for later šŸ“šāœØ

Now tell me your favorite psychological thriller book because apparently this is my entire personality while I’m recovering šŸ˜‚ 

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Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Isl Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Island last month and already wishing we could go back! 🌓 Even though the weather didn’t exactly cooperate with us šŸ˜‚ we still found SO many fun things to do around the island and honestly had the best time exploring. From beautiful beaches and cozy restaurants to shopping, sightseeing, and hidden gems, there’s so much to experience on Hilton Head Island, even on chilly or rainy days!

I finally finished my full Hilton Head Island travel blog post too, and it’s packed with all of our favorite spots, things to do, where to eat, and tips for first-time visitors! If you’re planning a Hilton Head vacation, family beach trip, or weekend getaway to South Carolina, this guide will help you plan the perfect trip šŸ–ļøāœØ

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Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my favorite simple summer decor 🌸 There’s truly nothing prettier than fresh peony blooms brightening up the kitchen and making the whole house feel cozy, cottagecore, and cheerful. I only wish peony season lasted longer because these gorgeous flowers bloom way too fast! 🩷 Wishing you all a slow, happy Saturday filled with sunshine, fresh flowers, and little moments that make home feel special! #peonies #peoniesbouquet #peoniesofinstagram #peoniesaremyfavorite #peonieseason
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief šŸ’›

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me šŸ˜… So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady šŸ’« Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends šŸ¤

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

Perfect for:
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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free šŸ’›

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless šŸ™ŒšŸ»), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! šŸ˜†

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief šŸ™ Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🄹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery šŸ‘€

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count šŸ˜‚ because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM šŸ™ŒšŸ» and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge šŸ˜…

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing šŸ’› And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears šŸ™šŸ¼ #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
If quick, easy dinners are your love language righ If quick, easy dinners are your love language right now, this one’s for you šŸ™Œ

I’ve been OBSESSED with @hungryroot lately for simple, healthy meals, especially this chicken BBQ flatbread 🤤 With surgery coming up (and recovery after), I need meals that are fast, low-effort, and still taste amazing… and this checks every box.

Everything gets delivered straight to your door, and most meals are ready in 15 minutes or less šŸ™Œ No stress, no extra planning, just easy weeknight dinners you’ll actually look forward to.

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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t šŸ˜‚ I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time šŸ™ƒ

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier šŸ¤

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous šŸ˜… so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain šŸ™ŒšŸ» counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment ā€œendoā€ below and I’ll send them straight to you! šŸ˜‰ #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery šŸ˜…

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM šŸ˜…). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them šŸ™

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing šŸ’›

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Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it šŸ’›

@MinkyCouture has the softest, coziest luxury blankets and today is the BEST time to shop because my code CHARITYG gets you 60% OFF + FREE shipping on orders $100+ šŸ™Œ

Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself. Yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling—you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! Spring gardening is offici Flower Lovin’ Friends! 
Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed šŸ’š With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard šŸ™„ (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🄲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden šŸŒ±šŸ‘

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time šŸ˜‚)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins šŸŒæšŸ’›

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC šŸ¤

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was ā€œrare.ā€
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not ā€œjust a bad period.ā€
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands šŸ™šŸ¼ 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! šŸ’› #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
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Lifestyle · March 24, 2022

How to Perfect Your Self Tan at Home

I am a huge self tanner person. I love being able to look like I have a great summer glow year round. But it can be kinda tricky to master. Especially if you’re new to self tanners. So I thought I would create a comprehensive blog post on how to perfect your self tan at home.

I’ll go through all the steps I take exactly and what my end results are.

How To Perfect Your Self Tan At Home

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Exfoliate

The first step into perfecting your self tan at home is to of course exfoliate. Exfoliating helps get rid of any dead skin and will help the self tanner adhere better.

So skipping this step is not an option if you want a perfect tan!

I like to use TULA Skincare’s body exfoliator. It not only improves the look of skin texture and tone, but also helps the skin appear brighter as well.

This exfoliator has a great scent and is a skin cleanser too! So it’s a perfect 2-in-1 product to keep in your daily skincare lineup. Plus, you can use my code “15CHARITY” to get 15% off too!

Shave

After exfoliating, now’s the time to shave! Be sure not to shave first and then exfoliate, because that would be quite painful if you mix up the order!

I like to use a shaving cream or gel to get a nice clean shave on my legs before applying the self tanner.

Apply the Self Tanner

Now’s your time to shine! After shaving and exfoliating, you can now apply the self tanner. I like to use Pink Lily’s Luxury Tan Self Tanner. I use the medium shade during the winter and then the dark shade during the summer.

It is Enriched with hydrating jojoba, macadamia, and coconut oil that will keep your skin hydrated and your tan glowing for days!

The best part about this self tanner is that it is also made with 100% natural DHA, vegan, cruelty free, certified organic, and paraben free as well!

The shade continues to develop over 14 hours and has a nice, light coconut fragrance. Some self tanners I have used in the past have way too much of a chemical scent to them so this one is really refreshing.

To apply the self tanner evenly, you definitely need a tanning mitt. I skimped on this for awhile and I wish I jumped on the tanning mitt wagon sooner!

It definitely helps you apply the self tanner and helps it spread much more evenly than just using your hands alone.

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Another great option for a self tanner is Coco & Eve.

I have also used this brand for several years as well and I love them just as much!

How to Tan Hands and Feet

If you’re wondering how to perfect your self tan at home, you are probably questioning how to do your hands and feet too.

If you have any experience self tanning in the past, then you know that sometimes you can get too much on your feet/hands and end up with a much darker shade there than you anticipated.

In order to prevent this, use a foundation brush! Just dap a little self tanner out on a paper towel and then dip the foundation brush into it.

Then, gently apply to your hands and feet using the brush instead of the tanning mitt!

Moisturize

The key to keeping your self tan looking glowy and perfect is to moisturize. Self tanners can be a little on the drying side so if you don’t moisturize frequently, you will notice your skin starting to get a little flaky.

This can easily be avoided by using your favorite moisturizer. I like to use TULA’s Advanced Hydration Body Moisturizer.

This buttery cream instantly hydrates skin, leaving a natural, luminous glow that feels soft & supple—never greasy or sticky. It also has Vitamin C and Yuzu in it which help to improve the look of tone and texture.

And the hyaluronic acid & ceramides deeply moisturize and help improve skin softness as well.

It even has a nice and subtle vanilla coconut scent which goes along great with the self tanner scent as well. Again, you can use my coupon code “15CHARITY” to get 15% off of this moisturizer as well.

They even have a great bundle option too where you can get both the exfoliator and the body moisturizer together and save a little money that way as well!

Enjoy your Tan!

Well, that’s it! 4 easy steps on how to perfect your self tan at home!

I hope you enjoyed this post and I hope it gave you the confidence to try out self tanner at home for yourself.

Do you currently use one or have a favorite? I would love to know below!

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Comments

  1. Katie says

    March 25, 2022 at 12:23 pm

    That’s such a great tip about using a foundation brush for hands/feet! I always end up using the mitt or my hands and it never looks quite right.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 25, 2022 at 8:16 pm

      Yes, if you use the mitt, it tends to come out too dark in that area!

      Reply
  2. readandreviewit says

    March 25, 2022 at 4:41 pm

    Fab tips! I’ve never tried self tanning before but I definitely want to give it a go, I’m ridiculously pale! I never knew you had to exfoliate first, so that’s a really handy tip. Thank you so much for sharing x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 25, 2022 at 8:16 pm

      You definitely should try it out and see how it goes for you!

      Reply
  3. Fransic verso says

    March 25, 2022 at 5:02 pm

    Great idea to use the brush. I think my friend was doing it wrong not to perfectly tan her body. This will help a lot. Thank you for sharing!

    Reply
  4. Jaya Avendel says

    March 25, 2022 at 7:48 pm

    Loving this post! The tanner you use sounds like it is pretty clean and skin-friendly, compared to other self-tanners I have come across. Finally, your tip for how to do hands and feet is awesome! <3

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 25, 2022 at 8:17 pm

      Yes! It helps using a brush instead of the mitt because it’s too much on your hands and feet if you use the mitt. It tends to look too orange!

      Reply
  5. Lucy says

    March 25, 2022 at 8:38 pm

    These are fab tips for self-tanning! Self-tanning is the one beauty skill I need to keep practicing and this post has helped me so much! x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 26, 2022 at 7:11 pm

      Oh good! I am so glad you found it to be useful then!

      Reply
  6. Heidi Bruaw says

    March 26, 2022 at 4:54 am

    Wonderful tips! I am always afraid to mess up so I’ve only gotten spray tans at the salon. I haven’t done it myself. You make it sound easier than I thought. Thank you for breaking it down and explaining how! šŸ™‚

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 26, 2022 at 7:11 pm

      Yes, you should definitely try it out for yourself. It’s not so bad, and it will definitely save you money versus going to the salon to do it!

      Reply
  7. Rayo says

    March 26, 2022 at 11:11 pm

    I actually don’t tan because I’m dark skinned but these are great tips. I love Tula skincare products especially the moisturizer

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 29, 2022 at 11:45 pm

      Yes I love their products too! And I wish I didn’t have to tan, but I am white as a ghost if I don’t lol

      Reply
  8. Her Digital Coffee says

    March 27, 2022 at 7:09 pm

    Thank you for sharing your tips for using self-tanner. Who doesn’t like a nice glow! šŸ™‚ I love that you’ve included products that are cruelty-free, vegan friendly, organic, and have great ingredients like Vitamin C!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 29, 2022 at 11:45 pm

      Thank you so much! They definitely are wonderful products for sure!

      Reply
  9. Jenni @ I on Image says

    March 28, 2022 at 11:46 am

    Oh it’s that time of the year again when m y lily white legs come out to play! Self-tan is a must for me but I am often unhappy with the results. Next time I try the foundation brush trick xx

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 29, 2022 at 11:46 pm

      Lol yes! I am the same way. White as a ghost without my self tanner!!

      Reply
  10. Molly | Transatlantic Notes says

    March 28, 2022 at 2:25 pm

    I’ve never used a self tan (or any tanning at all) so I had no idea it was so involved — I’m sure those who use it will love these tips as I’ve heard it can be a bit tricky to do sometimes!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 29, 2022 at 11:46 pm

      Yes, it gets much easier the more you do it though!

      Reply
  11. Eleanor says

    March 29, 2022 at 2:06 pm

    I don’t actually use tan, but these are such good tips- especially as the weather starts to get warmer and people start to invest in tanning x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 29, 2022 at 11:46 pm

      Yes, it sure is!

      Reply
  12. Andrea Hunt says

    March 30, 2022 at 2:58 pm

    This is so interesting! I have often wondered how to do this as I’ve been a bit scared to try it because I am weary of having an unnatural look but these are great tips for trying it out and having it look nice. I’ll give it a reconsideration! šŸ™‚

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      April 1, 2022 at 9:07 pm

      You should definitely try it out. It does give you a natural look without looking too orange or anything like that!

      Reply
  13. Stephanie says

    March 30, 2022 at 4:30 pm

    Yessss! This is precisely what my self-tan routine looks like throughout the summer. I rarely go outside during the warmer months, so I don’t get much sun. I used to swear by spray tans when I lived in the city, but since our move to the country, I’ve relied solely on self-tanner. That exfoliation before and moisturizing after are the keys, for sure!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      April 1, 2022 at 9:07 pm

      Yes, I am the same way. During the winter I get no sun, so I need all the help I can get lol

      Reply
  14. Angie Soul says

    March 31, 2022 at 10:37 am

    I’ve never self tanned before but I have been considering lately but was too afraid to try it in case of the scenario where I completely mess it up lol. These are great tips! Never knew it was important to exfoliate first. Thank you for sharing!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      April 1, 2022 at 9:08 pm

      Yes, you should definitely try it. It’s not hard and it’s definitely worth it for that easy summertime glow!

      Reply
  15. ellegracedeveson says

    March 31, 2022 at 11:33 am

    This is such a helpful post, thank you so much for sharing it with us. I’m a terrible self-tanner but I’m going to try these steps and see how I get on. Hopefully I don’t look like a Omaha lumpa anymore hahah. Xo

    Elle – ellegracedeveson.com

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      April 1, 2022 at 9:08 pm

      Lol good luck to you! It’s really not hard at all once you get the hang of it!

      Reply
  16. Jenny in Neverland says

    April 1, 2022 at 11:46 am

    Fab tips! I haven’t fake tanned in SO long but I used to do it religiously. I’ll probably be starting again soon, when the weather gets warmer šŸ™‚ x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      April 1, 2022 at 9:09 pm

      Yes, you definitely should! Love having a nice summer glow when the weather warms up!

      Reply

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Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery! Honestly, the best birthday gift I could ask for is finally being cleared to soak in the hot tub and take my scalding hot baths again šŸ˜‚ If you know me, then you know how much I’ve missed my hot baths during recovery these past two weeks!

At first, I was told no soaking for 4 weeks, so finding out it was only 2 weeks truly felt like a win  So today’s plans include lots of relaxing, healing, hot tub time, hanging out with my hubby, and continuing to take it easy while my body recovers from surgery.

And because life has a sense of humor, I also have pelvic floor physical therapy today too… nothing says ā€œhappy 33rd birthdayā€ quite like a PT appointment 🤣 But honestly, I’m just thankful to be healing, feeling better, and moving forward in my endometriosis recovery journey one day at a time. šŸ’›

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I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagr I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagram and honestly… this one hit a little too close to home. šŸ’”

As many of you know, I’m now a little over 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery. While my surgery was successful and my surgeon did remove the endometriosis, I’m still dealing with many of the same symptoms I had before surgery. And if I’m being honest, that’s been really hard mentally and emotionally.

One of my biggest fears is that my endometriosis surgery won’t fully help and that the chronic pain, back pain, insomnia, and fatigue never truly go away. I’ve heard from so many women in the endometriosis community that healing after excision surgery can take anywhere from 2–6 months, sometimes even longer. And while that gives me hope, it’s also difficult knowing recovery and healing isn’t immediate.

Endometriosis has already taken so much from my life physically, mentally, and emotionally. I just want to feel like myself again someday. But for now, I’m continuing to trust God through this healing journey, stay consistent with pelvic floor physical therapy, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time. šŸ’›

I also wanted to share this because I know so many others silently struggle with chronic illness, chronic pain, endometriosis, fatigue, and invisible illnesses too. Healing is never linear, and every recovery journey looks different. If you’re going through something similar, please know you’re not alone. 🫶 #chronicillness #endometriosis #endometriosisawareness #chronicillnesswarrior #endometriosiswarrior
POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by binge reading psychological thriller books šŸ¤£šŸ“š

Since I’ve been laying around recovering with not much to do, I’ve spent most of my time completely hooked on some of the best psychological thriller books I’ve read in a while. Honestly, these twisty thriller novels have been the perfect distraction and now I need everyone to read them with me šŸ‘€ If you love dark thrillers, shocking endings, suspenseful books, and plot twists you NEVER see coming… add these to your TBR immediately!

šŸ“– My recent psychological thriller book recommendations:

1ļøāƒ£ Gray After Dark — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
I could NOT put this one down. Definitely my favorite thriller out of all of them! It had me on the edge of my seat from beginning to end and the twists were insane. Dark, suspenseful, creepy, and so addictive. If you love fast-paced psychological thrillers, this one is a MUST READ.

2ļøāƒ£ Drowning in Paper Flowers — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Another thriller that completely consumed me. Every time I thought I had it figured out, the story surprised me again. The ending?! Absolutely wild.

3ļøāƒ£ Her First Lie — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Such a fun and twisty thriller read! Plus there was briefly a character named Charity in it which made me weirdly excited because I NEVER find my name in books 🤣

4ļøāƒ£ The Bartender — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Loved this easy thriller read! It has multiple POVs which can sometimes lose me, but this one was done really well and kept me hooked the whole time.

5ļøāƒ£ The Missing Ones — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Probably my least favorite of the bunch, mainly because the multiple POVs got a little confusing for me. BUT the storyline was super dark, twisty, and entertaining the entire time.

If you’re into thriller books, psychological suspense novels, mystery books with shocking twists, or binge-worthy reads that keep you up way too late… save this list for later šŸ“šāœØ

Now tell me your favorite psychological thriller book because apparently this is my entire personality while I’m recovering šŸ˜‚ 

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Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Isl Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Island last month and already wishing we could go back! 🌓 Even though the weather didn’t exactly cooperate with us šŸ˜‚ we still found SO many fun things to do around the island and honestly had the best time exploring. From beautiful beaches and cozy restaurants to shopping, sightseeing, and hidden gems, there’s so much to experience on Hilton Head Island, even on chilly or rainy days!

I finally finished my full Hilton Head Island travel blog post too, and it’s packed with all of our favorite spots, things to do, where to eat, and tips for first-time visitors! If you’re planning a Hilton Head vacation, family beach trip, or weekend getaway to South Carolina, this guide will help you plan the perfect trip šŸ–ļøāœØ

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Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my favorite simple summer decor 🌸 There’s truly nothing prettier than fresh peony blooms brightening up the kitchen and making the whole house feel cozy, cottagecore, and cheerful. I only wish peony season lasted longer because these gorgeous flowers bloom way too fast! 🩷 Wishing you all a slow, happy Saturday filled with sunshine, fresh flowers, and little moments that make home feel special! #peonies #peoniesbouquet #peoniesofinstagram #peoniesaremyfavorite #peonieseason
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief šŸ’›

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me šŸ˜… So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady šŸ’« Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends šŸ¤

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free šŸ’›

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless šŸ™ŒšŸ»), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! šŸ˜†

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief šŸ™ Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🄹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery šŸ‘€

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count šŸ˜‚ because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM šŸ™ŒšŸ» and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge šŸ˜…

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing šŸ’› And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears šŸ™šŸ¼ #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t šŸ˜‚ I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time šŸ™ƒ

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier šŸ¤

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous šŸ˜… so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain šŸ™ŒšŸ» counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment ā€œendoā€ below and I’ll send them straight to you! šŸ˜‰ #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery šŸ˜…

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM šŸ˜…). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them šŸ™

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing šŸ’›

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Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it šŸ’›

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If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling—you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! Spring gardening is offici Flower Lovin’ Friends! 
Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed šŸ’š With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard šŸ™„ (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🄲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden šŸŒ±šŸ‘

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time šŸ˜‚)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins šŸŒæšŸ’›

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC šŸ¤

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was ā€œrare.ā€
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not ā€œjust a bad period.ā€
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands šŸ™šŸ¼ 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! šŸ’› #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
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