Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my favorite simple summer decor 🌸 There’s truly nothing prettier than fresh peony blooms brightening up the kitchen and making the whole house feel cozy, cottagecore, and cheerful. I only wish peony season lasted longer because these gorgeous flowers bloom way too fast! 🩷 Wishing you all a slow, happy Saturday filled with sunshine, fresh flowers, and little moments that make home feel special! #peonies #peoniesbouquet #peoniesofinstagram #peoniesaremyfavorite #peonieseason
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends 😂🐣 Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments 😂 I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends 😂🐣 Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments 😂 I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too 🙌 and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again 🙌🏻

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief 💛

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me 😅 So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady 💫 Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends 🤍

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too 🙌 and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

Perfect for:
✔️ Front porch decor
✔️ Back patio styling
✔️ Low-maintenance outdoor plants
✔️ Faux plant lovers

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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis 🙌🏼 We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free 💛

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless 🙌🏻), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! 😆

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief 🙏 Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🥹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery 👀

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count 😂 because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM 🙌🏻 and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge 😅

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing 💛 And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears 🙏🏼 #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t 😂 I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time 🙃

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier 🤍

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous 😅 so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain 🙌🏻 counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment “endo” below and I’ll send them straight to you! 😉 #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery 😅

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM 😅). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them 🙏

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing 💛

#endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #minimallyinvasivesurgery #endometriosiswarrior
Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it 💛

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too 😉), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself. Yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special 💛 and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling—you just found it 💛

@MinkyCouture has the softest, coziest luxury blankets and today is the BEST time to shop because my code CHARITYG gets you 60% OFF + FREE shipping on orders $100+ 🙌

Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too 😉), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special 💛 and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

Don’t wait—this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early ✨
Flower Lovin’ Friends! Spring gardening is offici Flower Lovin’ Friends! 
Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed 💚 With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard 🙄 (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🥲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden 🌱👏

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time 😂)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins 🌿💛

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC 🤍

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was “rare.”
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not “just a bad period.”
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands 🙏🏼 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! 💛 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
If you’re tired of asking “what’s for dinner?” eve If you’re tired of asking “what’s for dinner?” every night… this is your sign to try Blue Apron 👀🍽️

I LOVE cooking, but planning meals and grocery shopping? Not so much 😅 That’s why this has been a game changer for my weekly dinner routine. Everything shows up portioned and ready to go, with super easy step-by-step recipe cards you can keep (so if you find a favorite, you can remake it anytime 🙌).

I just made their spicy orange shrimp noodle dish and it was SO good 🤤 The flavors were perfectly balanced, the shrimp tasted incredibly fresh, and the crunchy cashews on top were the best finishing touch!

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I am loving my new bedding I got in from @linensan I am loving my new bedding I got in from @linensandhutch 🙌🏻 I got the Eucalyptus quilt set and not only do I love the color, but the weight of the quilt is just perfect for me. I’m an extremely hot sleeper, so I can never do thick comforters or duvets, so this quilt set is right up my alley! I also got a couple of sets of their buttery soft sheets as well. And I have slept so good in them the past few days! If you’re needing new bedding too, be sure to check out Linens & Hutch and use my coupon code “CHARITY50” as well! Comment “shop” below and I’ll send you the link directly! 😉 #LinensAndHutch #LinensAndHutchPartner
Spring break really said “blink and it’s over” 😭🌅 Spring break really said “blink and it’s over” 😭🌅

Just like this sunset… my vacation is DONE and I’m emotionally unwell about it 😩 Please respect my privacy as I transition from beach mode to work mode 🦷✋

I love coming home (hi to my cats 😻💛), but WHY do we have to go straight back to work?! Like where are the recovery days?? I need a staycation after my vacation ASAP 🤣

Anyone else feel personally attacked by how fast trips go?! ✈️ #postvacationblues #postvacation #backtoreality #backtothegrind #springbreakover
Sunset cruises + shark tooth hunting = the BEST wa Sunset cruises + shark tooth hunting = the BEST way to end a trip to Hilton Head Island 🌅🐚✨

Our last night in Hilton Head Island, South Carolina was unforgettable thanks to @nativesonadventures! We hopped on their sunset cruise and made a stop at the famous shell island to search for shark teeth (no luck this time 😅), but WOW… the shells were absolutely unreal. I’ve never seen so many beautiful ones in one place!

We also cruised past the rumored Luke Bryan Hilton Head house, and yes… it’s just as incredible as you’d imagine 👀🏡

This experience was the perfect send-off to our trip and honestly one of the best things to do in Hilton Head! If you’re planning a visit, add a sunset boat tour + shell island adventure to your itinerary ASAP 🙌

Already counting down the days until we’re back 💛 #sunsetcruise #beachsunset #tikibar #tikiboat #tikibars
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Yesterday we went on our very first sailboat with @islandheadsailing and it was seriously one of the most fun experiences we’ve had on the island! Even though it was freezing (I was fighting for my life on the way back 🥶🤣), the views of the water were absolutely unreal.

We booked their Hilton Head brunch sail, and it came with the cutest spread of brunch goodies to enjoy while cruising, 10/10 recommend. Between the ocean breeze, peaceful vibes, and stunning scenery, this is hands down a must-do in Hilton Head Island.

If you’re planning a trip here and looking for unique things to do, add this to your list ASAP 🙌🏻 #sailing #hiltonhead #sailboatlife #sailboating #sailboatlove
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Lifestyle · October 30, 2020

Things I’ve Learned After Blogging For A Year

Y’all I can’t believe it, but my blog turned a year old on October 26th! I am a few days late posting this, but you know, working full time sometimes gets in the way of my blogging! But I am finally getting around to typing all this up and I figured I would share with you all a few things I’ve learned after blogging for a full year.

I am by no means an expert, and I feel like I still have so, so much to learn. However, I thought I would just try to share a few things in case someone was in the same boat as me.

Things I've Learned From Blogging
This was the very first picture I posted on my Instagram announcing the launch of my blog!

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You Need to be Self Hosted

I think the most important thing is that you need to be self hosted if you want your blog to go anywhere. Sure, you can start one for free and not pay anything up front, but then you are very limited when it comes to monetizing your blog later on.

Thankfully, I learned this from the very beginning and I went with Bluehost. They have been great so far and anytime I have a problem or concern with my site, their customer service has been excellent.

You can chat online, call them, or email them with any questions or problems you have and they are really fast to resolve it.

Now, it does cost a little money up front to sign up, but honestly I have made that all back and a little more just from blogging one year!

Which I think is pretty good considering I’ve read it can take bloggers many years before they earn a single penny!

So I think it is definitely worth the investment to be self hosted with your blog! Also, when you break it all down, it’s only about $3.95 a month which isn’t bad at all!

You Need To Be Self Hosted

You Need To Know Your Own Worth

This is another important thing I’ve learned after blogging a year. You really need to know your own worth and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Don’t accept collaborations for just free product only and don’t write a whole blog post for a company if you aren’t getting paid!

Blogging is a lot of work and you should be compensated fairly for your time and effort. At the beginning, I was guilty of doing this because I didn’t know any better.

I am here to tell you that companies are taking advantage of you if they don’t offer some kind of compensation for your work.

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So in short, if it doesn’t feel right to you, don’t accept the collaboration. Go with your gut! If you don’t think it’s a right fit, then don’t do it.

And also, don’t be afraid to ask for payment either. I used to be terrified of that as well! But now when I get a collaboration proposal that I am interested in, I always ask and say something like, “Is there a budget for this campaign?”.

That way the company knows I expect to be paid for it.

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I’m not saying to never accept free product only collaborations, because sometimes that is worth it. For example, I just got a furniture collaboration from Ashley Furniture.

Since the furniture was something that I really wanted, I accepted just that instead of payment. If it is a product you could really use and you were going to spend money on it anyway, then definitely accept it!

This all just goes back to going with your gut and knowing what feels right to you.

You Need To Know Your Own Worth

You Need To Have A Media Kit

If you want to work with brands and make money with your blog, then you need to have a media kit ready to go. You can make this for free off of Canva, or you can pay a few dollars for a template from places like Etsy.

When I first started off, I just made myself a simple free one. But as I have grown, I decided to buy a sharp looking template from Etsy.

I am not too design savvy on Canva so this made it much easier for me to just buy a pre-made template and fill in the info I needed to add.

You can find templates anywhere from $5-$20 too so you don’t have to spend a lot of money on it either.

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Also, if you have no idea what a media kit is, it’s basically a resume for your blog and social media. You put all of your stats on there such as page views, visitors, and reader statistics.

You can also add pricing and things you offer from your blog such as sponsored posts and collaborations. My rule of thumb is to have a media kit ready, but don’t send it out to brands unless they ask for it.

Every blogger is different on this, but I like to see what the brand is looking for first before sending out my kit to them.

But, it is very important to have this all ready and keep it updated monthly. That way you don’t have to stress and try to update it all at once when a brand asks you for it.

You definitely look more put together as a blogger when you have a nice media kit available in my opinion.

You Need To Have A Media Kit

You Need To Invest In Your Blog

This is something I wished I learned earlier on. You can’t just magically make money from your blog without investing a little in it at first too.

I tried to make mine the cheapest way possible (and still do honestly lol) but it is totally worth it to invest in a few things here and there.

For example, I spent some money and went to the virtual Haven Conference, and it was 100% worth it. I learned so much from that and there is no way I could have figured all that out on my own.

And, if you’re planning on attending a blogging conference in person, be sure to check out all my tips on what to bring to a blogging conference as well!

I like to try to do things all on my own, but there are just some things you need help with, and for me, blogging was one of them.

It didn’t come to me as naturally as Instagram did so it was nice to have someone there to teach me and learn from. If I took more classes from the beginning, I think I would be further along right now than I currently am.

I am still learning and trying to improve, but it has been such a fun year doing so!

You Need To Invest In Your Blog

You Need To Balance Your Time

After blogging a year, this is a very important thing that I have learned too. Balancing your time is so important. At first, I was trying to pump out 2-3 blog posts a week and literally no one would see them.

But I thought the more I posted, the better it was. And that is not necessarily true. Think quality over quantity. Don’t try to post content if you aren’t really feeling inspired to do so.

Now I just try to do at least one good quality blog post a week. Even then, if I am not feeling inspired, I may just wait awhile before publishing a new post.

There’s always other work that needs to be done on your blog as well such as updating links so it’s not always just writing that needs to be done.

Working full-time too prevents me from doing as much on my blog that I want to do currently, but finding balance is what is so important, that way I don’t get burnt out.

Also, don’t miss important time with family because of your blog and social media. It’s okay to take a break and it’s okay to take a step back.

Do what feels right to you and don’t worry about what other bloggers and influencers are doing right now.

I always try to compare myself to others, and that is not what matters. Stick to being your authentic self and you will see progress from that at your own pace!

You Need To Balance Your Time

Conclusion

So these are just a few things I have learned after blogging one full year. I could honestly go on and on, but I tried to just highlight a few things here and there.

If you have any questions about blogging or anything I could help you with, please let me know! I would love to try to see if I could help you out.

And if your a blogger too, how many years have you been doing it?! Let me know below and if there is any other advice you would give to a newbie blogger as well!

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Comments

  1. Maria says

    October 30, 2020 at 9:18 am

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO MORNINGS ON MACEDONIA!!!
    My blog too just turned one so I know how hard you work on this. I enjoy receiving your emails with each new blog post. You always post something that is informative, useful, or inspiring. Hopefully we can meet next year at a non-virtual conference!!!!!
    Keep up the good work:)

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 30, 2020 at 2:24 pm

      Awe tanks Maria! Happy Blog Anniversary to you as well! I am so happy we connected on here and started around the same time. I enjoy seeing your posts too and I hope we can meet sometime next year at a conference as well! That would be so much fun!

      Reply
  2. Seriah says

    October 30, 2020 at 2:02 pm

    Happy Anniversary ✨✨

    I love what you learned and you provided great insight into what I should do. I’ve been blogging for 3 months and I too realized the importance of investing in the blog and balancing your time.

    I’ve also learned to find a niche, which is pretty important

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 30, 2020 at 2:26 pm

      Thank you so much! And yes all those things are so important! Good luck to you and growing your blog in the future!!

      Reply
  3. Serena says

    October 30, 2020 at 3:19 pm

    Thank you for all those advices. I think I will use them. x

    https://www.serenbird.com

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 30, 2020 at 5:17 pm

      Thank you. I am glad you found it to be helpful.

      Reply
  4. Kalin says

    October 30, 2020 at 7:43 pm

    This such great advice! I’ve been at it for just over 6 months now and could still use a lot of these tips myself 🙂 Congrats on your one-year mark!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 2:56 pm

      Awe thanks Kalin! Your blog is beautiful too and it looks like you’ve been doing it for years now too!!

      Reply
  5. Jaya Avendel says

    October 30, 2020 at 8:13 pm

    I love that you share many of the lessons you have learned along your first year blogging! Many of the things you have learned here are things I am still working at. 🙂
    Happy blogiversary!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 2:58 pm

      Thank you so much! I appreciate that!

      Reply
  6. Britt K says

    October 31, 2020 at 12:31 am

    Happy Anniversary! I know that there are a lot of people in the blogging community that will say NEVER accept a collaboration for just free product. Like you, however, I will accept if it’s something that I really want and was going to spend my money on anyway. Assuming, of course, it’s worth the effort required in the collaboration. There’s a big difference between accepting a $5 product and accepting a $100 product. You need to weigh out the pros and cons in each situation and decide on the best answer for YOU and your time.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 2:59 pm

      Exactly! I totally agree with that. Thanks so much for reading my friend!

      Reply
  7. Colleen says

    October 31, 2020 at 1:29 pm

    Thank you for sharing this!! I as well as my family have a lot of web experience..im new to blogging, but have been writing for as long as I can remember. I could kick myself for now buying my own domain from the start. A lot of your tips were things I told myself I could wait on to see what happens with my site first, but now I realize (especially so early on) I should take thr plunge now…so thank you for this! I love watching your stories!!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 3:01 pm

      Awe thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed it and found it to be helpful!

      Reply
  8. markstraveljournal says

    October 31, 2020 at 3:35 pm

    Great points! All true! I’ve been blogging for 8 years and enjoy it very much. It certainly has its challenges but I don’t plan on stopping anytime soon. Happy blogiversary!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 8:18 pm

      Oh wow! That’s awesome! I plan to continue on blogging too. Hopefully I can learn even more as I go!

      Reply
  9. Liz says

    November 1, 2020 at 2:16 pm

    Happy anniversary to your blog! It’s great to read about your experience and learnings as a blogger. I actually am thinking of doing self hosting too!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 8:54 pm

      Thank you so much! You definitely should, there are a lot more opportunities if you do so!

      Reply
  10. Jennifer Marston says

    November 1, 2020 at 2:18 pm

    I will admit, I made a fair bit from blogging before I was self hosted. So it can happen. But self hosting is definitely the best option if you want to take it seriously 🙂 Congrats on a year of blogging!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 8:55 pm

      Oh that’s good to know. I always read that it was best to start off that way so I didn’t know any otherwise. But Thank you!

      Reply
  11. Lisa Marie Alioto says

    November 1, 2020 at 2:46 pm

    Happy blogerversary! Great lessons learned and insights!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 8:58 pm

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate it Lisa!

      Reply
  12. Robert says

    November 1, 2020 at 3:39 pm

    Some excellent advice, especially for those just starting out. Everyone has their own reasons for blogging and many are under the assumption that they can make a lot of money quickly & easily. Wrong! It takes a great deal of time and effort to be successful. I blog for the enjoyment & interaction with other travelers, but I’m always learning something new each day. Great job! 🙂

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:04 pm

      Exactly! It’s definitely not a get rich quick scheme lol I enjoy interacting with others too and learning as I go! It’s been a real fun experience so far!

      Reply
  13. Jupiter Hadley says

    November 1, 2020 at 3:49 pm

    Congratulations on making it another year! Balancing time is always a truggle with me.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:05 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, sometimes it is so hard to find the time to do everything!

      Reply
  14. Lucy says

    November 1, 2020 at 4:46 pm

    Happy blogging anniversary! You have learnt so much from your first year of blogging which is lovely to see, here’s to more years of Mornings on Macedonia! x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:06 pm

      Awe thanks so much girl! I appreciate it!

      Reply
  15. Faye says

    November 1, 2020 at 7:40 pm

    Great post! I’m at a point where I need to invest in my blog but it’s daunting going for it! I’ll be doing plenty of research into what area of my blog it is that I want to grow and investing in that area for sure 🙂

    https://www.femaleoriginal.com

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:08 pm

      Thank you so much! It’s scary to take a leap, but I am glad I did and I will continue to do so!

      Reply
  16. Fransic verso says

    November 2, 2020 at 12:24 pm

    I can feel the struggle of not being able to blog all the time haha. As bloggers, we definitely need all of these. Thank you for sharing it!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:41 pm

      Yes! It’s hard not to be able to do it as much as you would like to!

      Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:41 pm

      Yes! It’s hard not to be able to do it as much as you would like to.

      Reply
  17. Kelly Diane says

    November 2, 2020 at 12:49 pm

    Happy anniversary! You’ve mentioned so many helpful tips. I definitely wish bloggers would know their worth and stop accepting things just because its free.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:42 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, I wish so too because that makes it harder for all of us who are actually trying to make some money with doing all this work!

      Reply
  18. Karalee Shotola says

    November 2, 2020 at 1:00 pm

    Happy blogiversary! I definitely agree with most of your advice especially that you need to realize your worth & balance your time!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:45 pm

      Yes that is so important for sure!

      Reply
  19. Johana says

    November 2, 2020 at 1:01 pm

    Thanks for sharing this post, it was very informative! Having a media kit is super important to work with brands and investing in the blog is beneficial to growth.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:46 pm

      Thank you. I think so too! Very important for sure.

      Reply
  20. JoJo Hall says

    November 2, 2020 at 1:40 pm

    Wonderful post! There’s so much one needs to learn that it can be overwhelming at times when you first start out. But with time and patience things can take a turn for the better!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:48 pm

      Thank you. It is very overwhelming at first, but I am so glad that I stuck with it!

      Reply
  21. Simone Says GO! says

    November 2, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    Congratulations for making it one year into your blogging journey & thanks for sharing the moment with us! Your thoughts around this being a personal path that we should manage at our own pace & schedule, & in healthy balance with family, friends, life (!) …really resonates with me. Happy anniversary, again, and cheers to year 2!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:49 pm

      Thank you. I am so glad you found something that resonates with you too! I appreciate the kind words and am looking forward to year two as well!

      Reply
  22. Aimsy says

    November 2, 2020 at 7:27 pm

    Congratulations on a year of blogging…your blog is just fab!
    So many helpful tips in this post, I couldn’t agree more with the self-hosted (although I have a different host), it gives you much more freedom with your blog, doesn’t it? Also the bit about knowing your own self worth is so important!
    Looking forward to seeing what the next year brings for your blog.

    Aimsy xoxo

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:51 pm

      Awe thanks Aimsy! Yes, self hosting is definitely the way to go and it is always so important to know your own worth!

      Reply
  23. Nic | Nic's Adventures & Bakes says

    November 2, 2020 at 8:38 pm

    Happy first blog anniversary, so many tips that you have learnt over the year it seems, hope you have another great year blogging

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:52 pm

      Thank you so much! I am looking forward to another year of blogging as well!

      Reply
  24. Brooke Ressell says

    November 3, 2020 at 1:24 pm

    Isn’t it crazy how much you learn the first year? Glad to see I am not the only one who had no idea what I was doing or what I was getting into. You have a beautiful blog so you obviously have learned many marketable skills this past year. Keep up the good work!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 3, 2020 at 10:59 pm

      Yes it sure is crazy! And thank you so much, you have a wonderful blog too! I always enjoy seeing your posts as well!

      Reply
  25. Smelly socks and garden peas says

    November 3, 2020 at 1:29 pm

    Congratulations on the first year! You’ve achieved so much.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 3, 2020 at 11:01 pm

      Thank you so much! I appreciate that!

      Reply
  26. Corinne says

    November 4, 2020 at 3:15 am

    I couldn’t agree more with your post. Before I started blogging, I thought it was all writing and it would be cruisy. I was soooo wrong! Now I work super hard on my blog and treat it like a business.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 4, 2020 at 10:13 pm

      Yes! Treating it like a business is so important!

      Reply
  27. Eleanor says

    November 6, 2020 at 10:28 pm

    I agree, I also think being self-hosted is important to building your blog and it’s definitely helped my traffic and my motivation to stay on top of my blog 🙂 thanks for sharing your thoughts, it’s so interesting to read the lessons other bloggers have learned- and maybe understand a bit more about how to blog more effectively

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 8, 2020 at 7:08 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, I am always interested in reading other bloggers thoughts and tips too because I am constantly trying to improve mine and learn!

      Reply

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I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free 💛

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But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM 😅). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

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We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard 🙄 (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🥲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden 🌱👏

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time 😂)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins 🌿💛

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC 🤍

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was “rare.”
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not “just a bad period.”
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands 🙏🏼 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! 💛 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
If you’re tired of asking “what’s for dinner?” eve If you’re tired of asking “what’s for dinner?” every night… this is your sign to try Blue Apron 👀🍽️

I LOVE cooking, but planning meals and grocery shopping? Not so much 😅 That’s why this has been a game changer for my weekly dinner routine. Everything shows up portioned and ready to go, with super easy step-by-step recipe cards you can keep (so if you find a favorite, you can remake it anytime 🙌).

I just made their spicy orange shrimp noodle dish and it was SO good 🤤 The flavors were perfectly balanced, the shrimp tasted incredibly fresh, and the crunchy cashews on top were the best finishing touch!

If you’re looking for easy dinner ideas, quick weeknight meals, or a way to simplify meal planning, this is 100% worth trying.

Use my code CHARITY to get 50% off your first 3 boxes + free shipping 🚨
Comment “BLUE APRON” below and I’ll send you the link directly! #blueapron #blueapronmeals #blueapronrecipe #mealkit #mealdelivery
I am loving my new bedding I got in from @linensan I am loving my new bedding I got in from @linensandhutch 🙌🏻 I got the Eucalyptus quilt set and not only do I love the color, but the weight of the quilt is just perfect for me. I’m an extremely hot sleeper, so I can never do thick comforters or duvets, so this quilt set is right up my alley! I also got a couple of sets of their buttery soft sheets as well. And I have slept so good in them the past few days! If you’re needing new bedding too, be sure to check out Linens & Hutch and use my coupon code “CHARITY50” as well! Comment “shop” below and I’ll send you the link directly! 😉 #LinensAndHutch #LinensAndHutchPartner
Spring break really said “blink and it’s over” 😭🌅 Spring break really said “blink and it’s over” 😭🌅

Just like this sunset… my vacation is DONE and I’m emotionally unwell about it 😩 Please respect my privacy as I transition from beach mode to work mode 🦷✋

I love coming home (hi to my cats 😻💛), but WHY do we have to go straight back to work?! Like where are the recovery days?? I need a staycation after my vacation ASAP 🤣

Anyone else feel personally attacked by how fast trips go?! ✈️ #postvacationblues #postvacation #backtoreality #backtothegrind #springbreakover
Sunset cruises + shark tooth hunting = the BEST wa Sunset cruises + shark tooth hunting = the BEST way to end a trip to Hilton Head Island 🌅🐚✨

Our last night in Hilton Head Island, South Carolina was unforgettable thanks to @nativesonadventures! We hopped on their sunset cruise and made a stop at the famous shell island to search for shark teeth (no luck this time 😅), but WOW… the shells were absolutely unreal. I’ve never seen so many beautiful ones in one place!

We also cruised past the rumored Luke Bryan Hilton Head house, and yes… it’s just as incredible as you’d imagine 👀🏡

This experience was the perfect send-off to our trip and honestly one of the best things to do in Hilton Head! If you’re planning a visit, add a sunset boat tour + shell island adventure to your itinerary ASAP 🙌

Already counting down the days until we’re back 💛 #sunsetcruise #beachsunset #tikibar #tikiboat #tikibars
POV: you just found the best thing to do in Hilton POV: you just found the best thing to do in Hilton Head Island ⛵️✨

Yesterday we went on our very first sailboat with @islandheadsailing and it was seriously one of the most fun experiences we’ve had on the island! Even though it was freezing (I was fighting for my life on the way back 🥶🤣), the views of the water were absolutely unreal.

We booked their Hilton Head brunch sail, and it came with the cutest spread of brunch goodies to enjoy while cruising, 10/10 recommend. Between the ocean breeze, peaceful vibes, and stunning scenery, this is hands down a must-do in Hilton Head Island.

If you’re planning a trip here and looking for unique things to do, add this to your list ASAP 🙌🏻 #sailing #hiltonhead #sailboatlife #sailboating #sailboatlove

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