Y’all… I need some advice. 😅 Has anyone ever had t Y’all… I need some advice. 😅 Has anyone ever had their pinky toenail almost completely fall off for absolutely no reason?

Mine is literally hanging on by one tiny corner (like 90% detached 🤢), and I can’t decide if I should just pull it off or leave it alone. The problem is it hurts every time I put on socks or shoes because it keeps catching and tugging. 😩

This actually happened to me years ago after wearing cowboy booties in Nashville that rubbed my pinky toes raw, and I ended up losing both pinky toenails. They eventually grew back completely normal, so I’m so confused why it’s happening again.

I haven’t stubbed my toe, I haven’t had a pedicure in over 6 weeks, and I’ve mostly been living in sandals all summer with my usual tennis shoes. So what in the world would make a toenail suddenly start falling off? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Should I just go ahead and pull it off since it’s barely attached, or leave it alone and let it come off on its own? Tell me what you would do because I’m officially accepting all the toenail advice I can get. 😂

And at this point, I guess my body has decided to rebel from the top of my head all the way down to my toenails. 🫠🤣 #toes #toenails #pinkytoe #pinkytoes #toenail
I mean, how long do y’all think we’d survive on 3 I mean, how long do y’all think we’d survive on 3 cherry tomatoes, 4 cucumbers, and 2 squash from my vegetable garden? 😂 My raised garden beds have been struggling this year thanks to the deer, but technically my produce is homegrown and fresh!

Although… when you already deal with chronic GI issues every day, would you even notice the difference? 🤣

Any other gardeners having a rough harvest this year, or is it just me? 🌿🍅🥒

#diarrhea #gardenhumor #relatablecontent #parasitic #raisedgardenbeds
POV: It’s 2:37 a.m. and you’re playing everyone’s POV: It’s 2:37 a.m. and you’re playing everyone’s favorite game… “Is this insomnia or is this perimenopause?” 🙃😂

Please tell me I’m not the only one! I’m only 33, but lately I cannot sleep to save my life. Between tossing, turning, and staring at the ceiling, my Kindle and a cup of tea have basically become my nightly routine.

I’ve also read that women with endometriosis may experience symptoms associated with perimenopause earlier than average, and honestly… as if endometriosis hasn’t put us through enough already. 😅

At this point, I’m about ready to start a Late Night Book Club for all the insomnia and perimenopause girlies because apparently none of us are sleeping anyway. 📚☕️😂

So tell me… are you dealing with insomnia, perimenopause symptoms, endometriosis, or all of the above? And most importantly, what has actually helped you sleep? Drop your tips below because your girl is desperate. 💛

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/6i2jn

#insomniaproblems #perimenopausesymptoms #perimenopausehealth #endometriosis #perimenopausesupport
One thing people don’t talk about enough is how ch One thing people don’t talk about enough is how chronic illness doesn’t just affect the person who’s diagnosed, it changes the lives of the people who love them, too. ❤️

Living with an invisible illness can feel incredibly isolating, but having a supportive spouse has made all the difference in my journey. Through countless doctor appointments, unanswered questions, difficult days, and moments when I’ve felt like giving up, my husband has been my biggest advocate, my safe place, and my constant source of strength.

I know not everyone has that kind of support, and my heart truly goes out to anyone navigating chronic illness on their own. No one should have to carry that weight by themselves.

To every caregiver, spouse, partner, family member, or friend who continues to show up with patience, compassion, and love; you matter more than you know. Thank you for making the hard days a little easier. 🤍

If you’re living with a chronic illness, tag someone who’s been there for you, or send this to the person who’s helped carry you through your hardest days. They deserve to know how much they’re appreciated.

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/6ijlE

#chronicillnessawareness #invisibleillnessawareness #chronicillnesssupport #chronicillnesscommunity #supportivehusband
Just pretending it’s a crisp, cool fall day outsid Just pretending it’s a crisp, cool fall day outside with the breeze slightly blowing right now instead of it being 100 degrees outside! 🤣 

But seriously though, one sip and you’ll see why this cozy fall drink is a fan favorite. Made with warm apple cider, cinnamon, caramel, and whipped cream, it tastes like autumn in a cup, and the best part? There’s no coffee, so it’s perfect for kids and anyone who isn’t a coffee drinker!

I finally shared my easy Starbucks copycat Caramel Apple Spice recipe on the blog, and it’s so simple to make at home whenever those fall cravings hit. 🤎 Comment “Recipe” below and I’ll send it straight to you!

Have you ever tried a Starbucks Caramel Apple Spice before, or will this be your first time? Let me know below! 👇🏻 And don’t forget to save this recipe for cozy season and share it with your fellow fall lovers!

#starbuckscopycat #starbucksdrinks #starbucksrecipes #caramelapplespice #falldrinks
Anyone else have this problem when you’re laying o Anyone else have this problem when you’re laying out by the pool or at the beach trying to read a good book? 😅

No matter what style, brand, or pair of sunglasses I buy, they ALWAYS slide down my nose the second I lay on my stomach. 🤦‍♀️ I’ve tried expensive ones, cheap ones, trendy ones—you name it. Same result every time!

At this point I’m convinced I either have a weirdly shaped face or gravity just has a personal vendetta against me. 😂

It’s honestly one of my biggest pool day pet peeves because I can never stay comfortable long enough to tan my back. So while the front of me is getting plenty of sunshine, the back is staying pale because I’m constantly giving up and rolling back over. ☀️🤣

Please tell me I’m not the only one! Do your sunglasses slide down your nose too, or have you found a magical pair that actually stays put? 👇😎

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/6gl9i

#summerhumor #sunglassesaddict #fails #relatablecomedy #raybansunglasses
POV: You spend months growing a vegetable garden… POV: You spend months growing a vegetable garden… just to realize you’re actually gardening for the neighborhood deer. 😂🌱🦌

Apparently they decided to leave me exactly 4 cherry tomatoes and half a cucumber today. How thoughtful. 🤣

But wait until the end because you’ll see the sweetest little baby deer… and honestly, how am I supposed to stay mad after that?! 🥹❤️ They can have all the cherry tomatoes they want.

The only sad part? I haven’t harvested a single heirloom tomato this year because the deer keep eating them before they’re ripe enough to pick. 😅 I guess my garden has officially become a wildlife buffet.

Tell me I’m not the only one… What keeps eating your garden? Deer, squirrels, rabbits, or something else? ⬇️

#gardenhumor #babydeer #inmygardentoday #deerofinstagram #summergarden
Since my first baby, Toby, officially turned 10 ye Since my first baby, Toby, officially turned 10 years old last month, I knew I had to spoil him with something extra special. 🥹🐈 And let me tell you… this heated therapeutic cat bed has been the biggest hit!

It features multiple heat settings to keep older cats cozy, plus a gentle massage feature that’s perfect for helping senior cats relax after a long day of… well… napping. 😹 Safe to say Toby is obsessed!

Of course, little Miss Riley immediately decided she deserved a turn too. 😂 Apparently this cozy cat bed is approved by cats of all ages!

If you’re looking for the best cat bed for senior cats, or just want to spoil your furry best friend, I highly recommend this one.

Use my code MACEDONIA to save $10 on your Knead cat bed!
And Comment “CAT BED” below, and I’ll send you the link directly! 🐾❤️

#seniorcat #catbed #heatedcatbed #catloversofinstagram #kneadcats
If you’ve been following my chronic illness journe If you’ve been following my chronic illness journey for a while, you already know how many doctors, specialists, tests, and appointments I’ve been through. Time after time, I was told I was “fine,” “everything looks normal,” or that it was “just anxiety.”

But after my appointment with @carolina_functional_neurology, I finally felt heard.

They agreed that what I’ve been experiencing is not normal. They believe I have POTS, and they also think there could be other neurological issues that need to be investigated. After years of questioning myself because of medical gaslighting, hearing a doctor validate my symptoms was something I’ll never forget.

At this point, I don’t think one Netflix documentary would be enough to cover this whole journey. 🤣

The saddest part? I know so many of you have messaged me saying you’ve experienced the exact same thing. It’s heartbreaking how common medical gaslighting has become, especially for people living with chronic illness or invisible illnesses.

So if you’re still searching for answers, this is your reminder: don’t stop advocating for yourself. Keep asking questions. Keep pushing for second opinions. Keep fighting for the care you deserve.

You know your body better than anyone else.

And if you’ve been medically gaslit too, I want you to know you’re not alone. ❤️

#medicalgaslighting #netflixdocumentary #potsawareness #chronicillnessawareness #medicaltrauma
🚨 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨 I’ve decided to start an Onl 🚨 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨

I’ve decided to start an OnlyPaws account so I can finally quit my job and become a full-time stay-at-home cat mom. 😹

I mean, who wouldn’t pay premium content prices to see adorable cat toe beans, fluffy paws, and exclusive behind-the-scenes footage of two spoiled indoor cats living their best lives? 🐾😂

The stars of this business venture, Toby and Riley, have fully consented to the arrangement (by accepting treats), and they strongly support me staying home so I can dedicate more time to serving their every need. 😜

Honestly, with content this cute, retirement might be closer than I thought. 🤣
#toebeans #onlypaws #cattoebeans #cattoes #toebeans🐾
Yesterday felt like a turning point. 🤍 We drove t Yesterday felt like a turning point. 🤍

We drove to Charlotte to see a functional neurologist, and for the first time in a long time, I left an appointment feeling heard instead of dismissed.

After listening to everything I’ve been experiencing and putting me through what they jokingly called the “Brain Olympics” 😂 (seriously…SO many neurological tests), they agreed that my symptoms are not normal. They also agree that I likely have POTS, which honestly brought so much validation after everything I’ve been through.

The testing also showed signs that something may be going on with my cerebellum that’s causing my autonomic nervous system to misfire. Because of that, they want me to get a brain MRI to investigate further, including looking for things like Chiari malformation. They’re also ordering additional bloodwork and testing for celiac disease to make sure nothing else is contributing to everything I’ve been experiencing.

Am I nervous? Absolutely.

But for the first time in a very long time, I also feel hopeful.

I know none of these are answers yet, but having a doctor who believes me, listens, and is committed to figuring this out means more than I can explain. After years of wondering if I was just imagining things or being told my tests were “normal,” that validation alone feels like a huge win.

Thank you to everyone who has checked on me, prayed for me, encouraged me, and shared your own experiences. Your support has helped me keep pushing for answers when it would’ve been easier to give up.

I’m taking this journey one step at a time, and I’ll continue to keep you all updated. ❤️

Have you ever had to fight to get a doctor to truly listen to you? I’d love to hear your story in the comments. 👇
#pots #potssyndrome #neurology #functionalneurology #chiarimalformation
Anyone else flip the switch to fall mode the secon Anyone else flip the switch to fall mode the second the Fourth of July is over? 🍂😂

Don’t get me wrong, I still love summer, pool days, and sunshine. But there’s just something about fall that has my heart. The cozy vibes, cooler weather, pumpkin everything, fall candles, football Saturdays, and not melting the second you step outside? Yes, please! 🤎🍁

Don’t worry… I’m not decorating for fall just yet (I’m trying to be patient 😅), but that doesn’t stop me from dreaming about all the fall decor, cozy nights, and crisp autumn days ahead!

Now I have to know… are you Team Fall 🍂 or Team Summer ☀️? Let the debate begin! 

#summertofall #falllover #cozyseason #cozyfall #falldecor
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Lifestyle · October 30, 2020

Things I’ve Learned After Blogging For A Year

Y’all I can’t believe it, but my blog turned a year old on October 26th! I am a few days late posting this, but you know, working full time sometimes gets in the way of my blogging! But I am finally getting around to typing all this up and I figured I would share with you all a few things I’ve learned after blogging for a full year.

I am by no means an expert, and I feel like I still have so, so much to learn. However, I thought I would just try to share a few things in case someone was in the same boat as me.

Things I've Learned From Blogging
This was the very first picture I posted on my Instagram announcing the launch of my blog!

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You Need to be Self Hosted

I think the most important thing is that you need to be self hosted if you want your blog to go anywhere. Sure, you can start one for free and not pay anything up front, but then you are very limited when it comes to monetizing your blog later on.

Thankfully, I learned this from the very beginning and I went with Bluehost. They have been great so far and anytime I have a problem or concern with my site, their customer service has been excellent.

You can chat online, call them, or email them with any questions or problems you have and they are really fast to resolve it.

Now, it does cost a little money up front to sign up, but honestly I have made that all back and a little more just from blogging one year!

Which I think is pretty good considering I’ve read it can take bloggers many years before they earn a single penny!

So I think it is definitely worth the investment to be self hosted with your blog! Also, when you break it all down, it’s only about $3.95 a month which isn’t bad at all!

You Need To Be Self Hosted

You Need To Know Your Own Worth

This is another important thing I’ve learned after blogging a year. You really need to know your own worth and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Don’t accept collaborations for just free product only and don’t write a whole blog post for a company if you aren’t getting paid!

Blogging is a lot of work and you should be compensated fairly for your time and effort. At the beginning, I was guilty of doing this because I didn’t know any better.

I am here to tell you that companies are taking advantage of you if they don’t offer some kind of compensation for your work.

Coop Home Goods

So in short, if it doesn’t feel right to you, don’t accept the collaboration. Go with your gut! If you don’t think it’s a right fit, then don’t do it.

And also, don’t be afraid to ask for payment either. I used to be terrified of that as well! But now when I get a collaboration proposal that I am interested in, I always ask and say something like, “Is there a budget for this campaign?”.

That way the company knows I expect to be paid for it.

Ashley Furniture This Is Home - Evergreen

I’m not saying to never accept free product only collaborations, because sometimes that is worth it. For example, I just got a furniture collaboration from Ashley Furniture.

Since the furniture was something that I really wanted, I accepted just that instead of payment. If it is a product you could really use and you were going to spend money on it anyway, then definitely accept it!

This all just goes back to going with your gut and knowing what feels right to you.

You Need To Know Your Own Worth

You Need To Have A Media Kit

If you want to work with brands and make money with your blog, then you need to have a media kit ready to go. You can make this for free off of Canva, or you can pay a few dollars for a template from places like Etsy.

When I first started off, I just made myself a simple free one. But as I have grown, I decided to buy a sharp looking template from Etsy.

I am not too design savvy on Canva so this made it much easier for me to just buy a pre-made template and fill in the info I needed to add.

You can find templates anywhere from $5-$20 too so you don’t have to spend a lot of money on it either.

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Also, if you have no idea what a media kit is, it’s basically a resume for your blog and social media. You put all of your stats on there such as page views, visitors, and reader statistics.

You can also add pricing and things you offer from your blog such as sponsored posts and collaborations. My rule of thumb is to have a media kit ready, but don’t send it out to brands unless they ask for it.

Every blogger is different on this, but I like to see what the brand is looking for first before sending out my kit to them.

But, it is very important to have this all ready and keep it updated monthly. That way you don’t have to stress and try to update it all at once when a brand asks you for it.

You definitely look more put together as a blogger when you have a nice media kit available in my opinion.

You Need To Have A Media Kit

You Need To Invest In Your Blog

This is something I wished I learned earlier on. You can’t just magically make money from your blog without investing a little in it at first too.

I tried to make mine the cheapest way possible (and still do honestly lol) but it is totally worth it to invest in a few things here and there.

For example, I spent some money and went to the virtual Haven Conference, and it was 100% worth it. I learned so much from that and there is no way I could have figured all that out on my own.

And, if you’re planning on attending a blogging conference in person, be sure to check out all my tips on what to bring to a blogging conference as well!

I like to try to do things all on my own, but there are just some things you need help with, and for me, blogging was one of them.

It didn’t come to me as naturally as Instagram did so it was nice to have someone there to teach me and learn from. If I took more classes from the beginning, I think I would be further along right now than I currently am.

I am still learning and trying to improve, but it has been such a fun year doing so!

You Need To Invest In Your Blog

You Need To Balance Your Time

After blogging a year, this is a very important thing that I have learned too. Balancing your time is so important. At first, I was trying to pump out 2-3 blog posts a week and literally no one would see them.

But I thought the more I posted, the better it was. And that is not necessarily true. Think quality over quantity. Don’t try to post content if you aren’t really feeling inspired to do so.

Now I just try to do at least one good quality blog post a week. Even then, if I am not feeling inspired, I may just wait awhile before publishing a new post.

There’s always other work that needs to be done on your blog as well such as updating links so it’s not always just writing that needs to be done.

Working full-time too prevents me from doing as much on my blog that I want to do currently, but finding balance is what is so important, that way I don’t get burnt out.

Also, don’t miss important time with family because of your blog and social media. It’s okay to take a break and it’s okay to take a step back.

Do what feels right to you and don’t worry about what other bloggers and influencers are doing right now.

I always try to compare myself to others, and that is not what matters. Stick to being your authentic self and you will see progress from that at your own pace!

You Need To Balance Your Time

Conclusion

So these are just a few things I have learned after blogging one full year. I could honestly go on and on, but I tried to just highlight a few things here and there.

If you have any questions about blogging or anything I could help you with, please let me know! I would love to try to see if I could help you out.

And if your a blogger too, how many years have you been doing it?! Let me know below and if there is any other advice you would give to a newbie blogger as well!

Things I've Learned After Blogging A Full Year
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Comments

  1. Maria says

    October 30, 2020 at 9:18 am

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO MORNINGS ON MACEDONIA!!!
    My blog too just turned one so I know how hard you work on this. I enjoy receiving your emails with each new blog post. You always post something that is informative, useful, or inspiring. Hopefully we can meet next year at a non-virtual conference!!!!!
    Keep up the good work:)

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 30, 2020 at 2:24 pm

      Awe tanks Maria! Happy Blog Anniversary to you as well! I am so happy we connected on here and started around the same time. I enjoy seeing your posts too and I hope we can meet sometime next year at a conference as well! That would be so much fun!

      Reply
  2. Seriah says

    October 30, 2020 at 2:02 pm

    Happy Anniversary ✨✨

    I love what you learned and you provided great insight into what I should do. I’ve been blogging for 3 months and I too realized the importance of investing in the blog and balancing your time.

    I’ve also learned to find a niche, which is pretty important

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 30, 2020 at 2:26 pm

      Thank you so much! And yes all those things are so important! Good luck to you and growing your blog in the future!!

      Reply
  3. Serena says

    October 30, 2020 at 3:19 pm

    Thank you for all those advices. I think I will use them. x

    https://www.serenbird.com

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 30, 2020 at 5:17 pm

      Thank you. I am glad you found it to be helpful.

      Reply
  4. Kalin says

    October 30, 2020 at 7:43 pm

    This such great advice! I’ve been at it for just over 6 months now and could still use a lot of these tips myself 🙂 Congrats on your one-year mark!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 2:56 pm

      Awe thanks Kalin! Your blog is beautiful too and it looks like you’ve been doing it for years now too!!

      Reply
  5. Jaya Avendel says

    October 30, 2020 at 8:13 pm

    I love that you share many of the lessons you have learned along your first year blogging! Many of the things you have learned here are things I am still working at. 🙂
    Happy blogiversary!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 2:58 pm

      Thank you so much! I appreciate that!

      Reply
  6. Britt K says

    October 31, 2020 at 12:31 am

    Happy Anniversary! I know that there are a lot of people in the blogging community that will say NEVER accept a collaboration for just free product. Like you, however, I will accept if it’s something that I really want and was going to spend my money on anyway. Assuming, of course, it’s worth the effort required in the collaboration. There’s a big difference between accepting a $5 product and accepting a $100 product. You need to weigh out the pros and cons in each situation and decide on the best answer for YOU and your time.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 2:59 pm

      Exactly! I totally agree with that. Thanks so much for reading my friend!

      Reply
  7. Colleen says

    October 31, 2020 at 1:29 pm

    Thank you for sharing this!! I as well as my family have a lot of web experience..im new to blogging, but have been writing for as long as I can remember. I could kick myself for now buying my own domain from the start. A lot of your tips were things I told myself I could wait on to see what happens with my site first, but now I realize (especially so early on) I should take thr plunge now…so thank you for this! I love watching your stories!!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 3:01 pm

      Awe thank you so much! I am so glad you enjoyed it and found it to be helpful!

      Reply
  8. markstraveljournal says

    October 31, 2020 at 3:35 pm

    Great points! All true! I’ve been blogging for 8 years and enjoy it very much. It certainly has its challenges but I don’t plan on stopping anytime soon. Happy blogiversary!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      October 31, 2020 at 8:18 pm

      Oh wow! That’s awesome! I plan to continue on blogging too. Hopefully I can learn even more as I go!

      Reply
  9. Liz says

    November 1, 2020 at 2:16 pm

    Happy anniversary to your blog! It’s great to read about your experience and learnings as a blogger. I actually am thinking of doing self hosting too!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 8:54 pm

      Thank you so much! You definitely should, there are a lot more opportunities if you do so!

      Reply
  10. Jennifer Marston says

    November 1, 2020 at 2:18 pm

    I will admit, I made a fair bit from blogging before I was self hosted. So it can happen. But self hosting is definitely the best option if you want to take it seriously 🙂 Congrats on a year of blogging!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 8:55 pm

      Oh that’s good to know. I always read that it was best to start off that way so I didn’t know any otherwise. But Thank you!

      Reply
  11. Lisa Marie Alioto says

    November 1, 2020 at 2:46 pm

    Happy blogerversary! Great lessons learned and insights!

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    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 8:58 pm

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate it Lisa!

      Reply
  12. Robert says

    November 1, 2020 at 3:39 pm

    Some excellent advice, especially for those just starting out. Everyone has their own reasons for blogging and many are under the assumption that they can make a lot of money quickly & easily. Wrong! It takes a great deal of time and effort to be successful. I blog for the enjoyment & interaction with other travelers, but I’m always learning something new each day. Great job! 🙂

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:04 pm

      Exactly! It’s definitely not a get rich quick scheme lol I enjoy interacting with others too and learning as I go! It’s been a real fun experience so far!

      Reply
  13. Jupiter Hadley says

    November 1, 2020 at 3:49 pm

    Congratulations on making it another year! Balancing time is always a truggle with me.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:05 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, sometimes it is so hard to find the time to do everything!

      Reply
  14. Lucy says

    November 1, 2020 at 4:46 pm

    Happy blogging anniversary! You have learnt so much from your first year of blogging which is lovely to see, here’s to more years of Mornings on Macedonia! x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:06 pm

      Awe thanks so much girl! I appreciate it!

      Reply
  15. Faye says

    November 1, 2020 at 7:40 pm

    Great post! I’m at a point where I need to invest in my blog but it’s daunting going for it! I’ll be doing plenty of research into what area of my blog it is that I want to grow and investing in that area for sure 🙂

    https://www.femaleoriginal.com

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 1, 2020 at 9:08 pm

      Thank you so much! It’s scary to take a leap, but I am glad I did and I will continue to do so!

      Reply
  16. Fransic verso says

    November 2, 2020 at 12:24 pm

    I can feel the struggle of not being able to blog all the time haha. As bloggers, we definitely need all of these. Thank you for sharing it!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:41 pm

      Yes! It’s hard not to be able to do it as much as you would like to!

      Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:41 pm

      Yes! It’s hard not to be able to do it as much as you would like to.

      Reply
  17. Kelly Diane says

    November 2, 2020 at 12:49 pm

    Happy anniversary! You’ve mentioned so many helpful tips. I definitely wish bloggers would know their worth and stop accepting things just because its free.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:42 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, I wish so too because that makes it harder for all of us who are actually trying to make some money with doing all this work!

      Reply
  18. Karalee Shotola says

    November 2, 2020 at 1:00 pm

    Happy blogiversary! I definitely agree with most of your advice especially that you need to realize your worth & balance your time!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:45 pm

      Yes that is so important for sure!

      Reply
  19. Johana says

    November 2, 2020 at 1:01 pm

    Thanks for sharing this post, it was very informative! Having a media kit is super important to work with brands and investing in the blog is beneficial to growth.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:46 pm

      Thank you. I think so too! Very important for sure.

      Reply
  20. JoJo Hall says

    November 2, 2020 at 1:40 pm

    Wonderful post! There’s so much one needs to learn that it can be overwhelming at times when you first start out. But with time and patience things can take a turn for the better!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:48 pm

      Thank you. It is very overwhelming at first, but I am so glad that I stuck with it!

      Reply
  21. Simone Says GO! says

    November 2, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    Congratulations for making it one year into your blogging journey & thanks for sharing the moment with us! Your thoughts around this being a personal path that we should manage at our own pace & schedule, & in healthy balance with family, friends, life (!) …really resonates with me. Happy anniversary, again, and cheers to year 2!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:49 pm

      Thank you. I am so glad you found something that resonates with you too! I appreciate the kind words and am looking forward to year two as well!

      Reply
  22. Aimsy says

    November 2, 2020 at 7:27 pm

    Congratulations on a year of blogging…your blog is just fab!
    So many helpful tips in this post, I couldn’t agree more with the self-hosted (although I have a different host), it gives you much more freedom with your blog, doesn’t it? Also the bit about knowing your own self worth is so important!
    Looking forward to seeing what the next year brings for your blog.

    Aimsy xoxo

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:51 pm

      Awe thanks Aimsy! Yes, self hosting is definitely the way to go and it is always so important to know your own worth!

      Reply
  23. Nic | Nic's Adventures & Bakes says

    November 2, 2020 at 8:38 pm

    Happy first blog anniversary, so many tips that you have learnt over the year it seems, hope you have another great year blogging

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 2, 2020 at 11:52 pm

      Thank you so much! I am looking forward to another year of blogging as well!

      Reply
  24. Brooke Ressell says

    November 3, 2020 at 1:24 pm

    Isn’t it crazy how much you learn the first year? Glad to see I am not the only one who had no idea what I was doing or what I was getting into. You have a beautiful blog so you obviously have learned many marketable skills this past year. Keep up the good work!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 3, 2020 at 10:59 pm

      Yes it sure is crazy! And thank you so much, you have a wonderful blog too! I always enjoy seeing your posts as well!

      Reply
  25. Smelly socks and garden peas says

    November 3, 2020 at 1:29 pm

    Congratulations on the first year! You’ve achieved so much.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 3, 2020 at 11:01 pm

      Thank you so much! I appreciate that!

      Reply
  26. Corinne says

    November 4, 2020 at 3:15 am

    I couldn’t agree more with your post. Before I started blogging, I thought it was all writing and it would be cruisy. I was soooo wrong! Now I work super hard on my blog and treat it like a business.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 4, 2020 at 10:13 pm

      Yes! Treating it like a business is so important!

      Reply
  27. Eleanor says

    November 6, 2020 at 10:28 pm

    I agree, I also think being self-hosted is important to building your blog and it’s definitely helped my traffic and my motivation to stay on top of my blog 🙂 thanks for sharing your thoughts, it’s so interesting to read the lessons other bloggers have learned- and maybe understand a bit more about how to blog more effectively

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      November 8, 2020 at 7:08 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, I am always interested in reading other bloggers thoughts and tips too because I am constantly trying to improve mine and learn!

      Reply

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Y’all… I need some advice. 😅 Has anyone ever had t Y’all… I need some advice. 😅 Has anyone ever had their pinky toenail almost completely fall off for absolutely no reason?

Mine is literally hanging on by one tiny corner (like 90% detached 🤢), and I can’t decide if I should just pull it off or leave it alone. The problem is it hurts every time I put on socks or shoes because it keeps catching and tugging. 😩

This actually happened to me years ago after wearing cowboy booties in Nashville that rubbed my pinky toes raw, and I ended up losing both pinky toenails. They eventually grew back completely normal, so I’m so confused why it’s happening again.

I haven’t stubbed my toe, I haven’t had a pedicure in over 6 weeks, and I’ve mostly been living in sandals all summer with my usual tennis shoes. So what in the world would make a toenail suddenly start falling off? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Should I just go ahead and pull it off since it’s barely attached, or leave it alone and let it come off on its own? Tell me what you would do because I’m officially accepting all the toenail advice I can get. 😂

And at this point, I guess my body has decided to rebel from the top of my head all the way down to my toenails. 🫠🤣 #toes #toenails #pinkytoe #pinkytoes #toenail
I mean, how long do y’all think we’d survive on 3 I mean, how long do y’all think we’d survive on 3 cherry tomatoes, 4 cucumbers, and 2 squash from my vegetable garden? 😂 My raised garden beds have been struggling this year thanks to the deer, but technically my produce is homegrown and fresh!

Although… when you already deal with chronic GI issues every day, would you even notice the difference? 🤣

Any other gardeners having a rough harvest this year, or is it just me? 🌿🍅🥒

#diarrhea #gardenhumor #relatablecontent #parasitic #raisedgardenbeds
POV: It’s 2:37 a.m. and you’re playing everyone’s POV: It’s 2:37 a.m. and you’re playing everyone’s favorite game… “Is this insomnia or is this perimenopause?” 🙃😂

Please tell me I’m not the only one! I’m only 33, but lately I cannot sleep to save my life. Between tossing, turning, and staring at the ceiling, my Kindle and a cup of tea have basically become my nightly routine.

I’ve also read that women with endometriosis may experience symptoms associated with perimenopause earlier than average, and honestly… as if endometriosis hasn’t put us through enough already. 😅

At this point, I’m about ready to start a Late Night Book Club for all the insomnia and perimenopause girlies because apparently none of us are sleeping anyway. 📚☕️😂

So tell me… are you dealing with insomnia, perimenopause symptoms, endometriosis, or all of the above? And most importantly, what has actually helped you sleep? Drop your tips below because your girl is desperate. 💛

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/6i2jn

#insomniaproblems #perimenopausesymptoms #perimenopausehealth #endometriosis #perimenopausesupport
One thing people don’t talk about enough is how ch One thing people don’t talk about enough is how chronic illness doesn’t just affect the person who’s diagnosed, it changes the lives of the people who love them, too. ❤️

Living with an invisible illness can feel incredibly isolating, but having a supportive spouse has made all the difference in my journey. Through countless doctor appointments, unanswered questions, difficult days, and moments when I’ve felt like giving up, my husband has been my biggest advocate, my safe place, and my constant source of strength.

I know not everyone has that kind of support, and my heart truly goes out to anyone navigating chronic illness on their own. No one should have to carry that weight by themselves.

To every caregiver, spouse, partner, family member, or friend who continues to show up with patience, compassion, and love; you matter more than you know. Thank you for making the hard days a little easier. 🤍

If you’re living with a chronic illness, tag someone who’s been there for you, or send this to the person who’s helped carry you through your hardest days. They deserve to know how much they’re appreciated.

Comment SHOP below to receive a DM with the link to this post on my LTK ⬇ https://liketk.it/6ijlE

#chronicillnessawareness #invisibleillnessawareness #chronicillnesssupport #chronicillnesscommunity #supportivehusband
Just pretending it’s a crisp, cool fall day outsid Just pretending it’s a crisp, cool fall day outside with the breeze slightly blowing right now instead of it being 100 degrees outside! 🤣 

But seriously though, one sip and you’ll see why this cozy fall drink is a fan favorite. Made with warm apple cider, cinnamon, caramel, and whipped cream, it tastes like autumn in a cup, and the best part? There’s no coffee, so it’s perfect for kids and anyone who isn’t a coffee drinker!

I finally shared my easy Starbucks copycat Caramel Apple Spice recipe on the blog, and it’s so simple to make at home whenever those fall cravings hit. 🤎 Comment “Recipe” below and I’ll send it straight to you!

Have you ever tried a Starbucks Caramel Apple Spice before, or will this be your first time? Let me know below! 👇🏻 And don’t forget to save this recipe for cozy season and share it with your fellow fall lovers!

#starbuckscopycat #starbucksdrinks #starbucksrecipes #caramelapplespice #falldrinks
Anyone else have this problem when you’re laying o Anyone else have this problem when you’re laying out by the pool or at the beach trying to read a good book? 😅

No matter what style, brand, or pair of sunglasses I buy, they ALWAYS slide down my nose the second I lay on my stomach. 🤦‍♀️ I’ve tried expensive ones, cheap ones, trendy ones—you name it. Same result every time!

At this point I’m convinced I either have a weirdly shaped face or gravity just has a personal vendetta against me. 😂

It’s honestly one of my biggest pool day pet peeves because I can never stay comfortable long enough to tan my back. So while the front of me is getting plenty of sunshine, the back is staying pale because I’m constantly giving up and rolling back over. ☀️🤣

Please tell me I’m not the only one! Do your sunglasses slide down your nose too, or have you found a magical pair that actually stays put? 👇😎

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#summerhumor #sunglassesaddict #fails #relatablecomedy #raybansunglasses
POV: You spend months growing a vegetable garden… POV: You spend months growing a vegetable garden… just to realize you’re actually gardening for the neighborhood deer. 😂🌱🦌

Apparently they decided to leave me exactly 4 cherry tomatoes and half a cucumber today. How thoughtful. 🤣

But wait until the end because you’ll see the sweetest little baby deer… and honestly, how am I supposed to stay mad after that?! 🥹❤️ They can have all the cherry tomatoes they want.

The only sad part? I haven’t harvested a single heirloom tomato this year because the deer keep eating them before they’re ripe enough to pick. 😅 I guess my garden has officially become a wildlife buffet.

Tell me I’m not the only one… What keeps eating your garden? Deer, squirrels, rabbits, or something else? ⬇️

#gardenhumor #babydeer #inmygardentoday #deerofinstagram #summergarden
Since my first baby, Toby, officially turned 10 ye Since my first baby, Toby, officially turned 10 years old last month, I knew I had to spoil him with something extra special. 🥹🐈 And let me tell you… this heated therapeutic cat bed has been the biggest hit!

It features multiple heat settings to keep older cats cozy, plus a gentle massage feature that’s perfect for helping senior cats relax after a long day of… well… napping. 😹 Safe to say Toby is obsessed!

Of course, little Miss Riley immediately decided she deserved a turn too. 😂 Apparently this cozy cat bed is approved by cats of all ages!

If you’re looking for the best cat bed for senior cats, or just want to spoil your furry best friend, I highly recommend this one.

Use my code MACEDONIA to save $10 on your Knead cat bed!
And Comment “CAT BED” below, and I’ll send you the link directly! 🐾❤️

#seniorcat #catbed #heatedcatbed #catloversofinstagram #kneadcats
If you’ve been following my chronic illness journe If you’ve been following my chronic illness journey for a while, you already know how many doctors, specialists, tests, and appointments I’ve been through. Time after time, I was told I was “fine,” “everything looks normal,” or that it was “just anxiety.”

But after my appointment with @carolina_functional_neurology, I finally felt heard.

They agreed that what I’ve been experiencing is not normal. They believe I have POTS, and they also think there could be other neurological issues that need to be investigated. After years of questioning myself because of medical gaslighting, hearing a doctor validate my symptoms was something I’ll never forget.

At this point, I don’t think one Netflix documentary would be enough to cover this whole journey. 🤣

The saddest part? I know so many of you have messaged me saying you’ve experienced the exact same thing. It’s heartbreaking how common medical gaslighting has become, especially for people living with chronic illness or invisible illnesses.

So if you’re still searching for answers, this is your reminder: don’t stop advocating for yourself. Keep asking questions. Keep pushing for second opinions. Keep fighting for the care you deserve.

You know your body better than anyone else.

And if you’ve been medically gaslit too, I want you to know you’re not alone. ❤️

#medicalgaslighting #netflixdocumentary #potsawareness #chronicillnessawareness #medicaltrauma
🚨 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨 I’ve decided to start an Onl 🚨 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨

I’ve decided to start an OnlyPaws account so I can finally quit my job and become a full-time stay-at-home cat mom. 😹

I mean, who wouldn’t pay premium content prices to see adorable cat toe beans, fluffy paws, and exclusive behind-the-scenes footage of two spoiled indoor cats living their best lives? 🐾😂

The stars of this business venture, Toby and Riley, have fully consented to the arrangement (by accepting treats), and they strongly support me staying home so I can dedicate more time to serving their every need. 😜

Honestly, with content this cute, retirement might be closer than I thought. 🤣
#toebeans #onlypaws #cattoebeans #cattoes #toebeans🐾
Yesterday felt like a turning point. 🤍 We drove t Yesterday felt like a turning point. 🤍

We drove to Charlotte to see a functional neurologist, and for the first time in a long time, I left an appointment feeling heard instead of dismissed.

After listening to everything I’ve been experiencing and putting me through what they jokingly called the “Brain Olympics” 😂 (seriously…SO many neurological tests), they agreed that my symptoms are not normal. They also agree that I likely have POTS, which honestly brought so much validation after everything I’ve been through.

The testing also showed signs that something may be going on with my cerebellum that’s causing my autonomic nervous system to misfire. Because of that, they want me to get a brain MRI to investigate further, including looking for things like Chiari malformation. They’re also ordering additional bloodwork and testing for celiac disease to make sure nothing else is contributing to everything I’ve been experiencing.

Am I nervous? Absolutely.

But for the first time in a very long time, I also feel hopeful.

I know none of these are answers yet, but having a doctor who believes me, listens, and is committed to figuring this out means more than I can explain. After years of wondering if I was just imagining things or being told my tests were “normal,” that validation alone feels like a huge win.

Thank you to everyone who has checked on me, prayed for me, encouraged me, and shared your own experiences. Your support has helped me keep pushing for answers when it would’ve been easier to give up.

I’m taking this journey one step at a time, and I’ll continue to keep you all updated. ❤️

Have you ever had to fight to get a doctor to truly listen to you? I’d love to hear your story in the comments. 👇
#pots #potssyndrome #neurology #functionalneurology #chiarimalformation
Anyone else flip the switch to fall mode the secon Anyone else flip the switch to fall mode the second the Fourth of July is over? 🍂😂

Don’t get me wrong, I still love summer, pool days, and sunshine. But there’s just something about fall that has my heart. The cozy vibes, cooler weather, pumpkin everything, fall candles, football Saturdays, and not melting the second you step outside? Yes, please! 🤎🍁

Don’t worry… I’m not decorating for fall just yet (I’m trying to be patient 😅), but that doesn’t stop me from dreaming about all the fall decor, cozy nights, and crisp autumn days ahead!

Now I have to know… are you Team Fall 🍂 or Team Summer ☀️? Let the debate begin! 

#summertofall #falllover #cozyseason #cozyfall #falldecor

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