Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery! Honestly, the best birthday gift I could ask for is finally being cleared to soak in the hot tub and take my scalding hot baths again šŸ˜‚ If you know me, then you know how much I’ve missed my hot baths during recovery these past two weeks!

At first, I was told no soaking for 4 weeks, so finding out it was only 2 weeks truly felt like a win  So today’s plans include lots of relaxing, healing, hot tub time, hanging out with my hubby, and continuing to take it easy while my body recovers from surgery.

And because life has a sense of humor, I also have pelvic floor physical therapy today too… nothing says ā€œhappy 33rd birthdayā€ quite like a PT appointment 🤣 But honestly, I’m just thankful to be healing, feeling better, and moving forward in my endometriosis recovery journey one day at a time. šŸ’›

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I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagr I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagram and honestly… this one hit a little too close to home. šŸ’”

As many of you know, I’m now a little over 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery. While my surgery was successful and my surgeon did remove the endometriosis, I’m still dealing with many of the same symptoms I had before surgery. And if I’m being honest, that’s been really hard mentally and emotionally.

One of my biggest fears is that my endometriosis surgery won’t fully help and that the chronic pain, back pain, insomnia, and fatigue never truly go away. I’ve heard from so many women in the endometriosis community that healing after excision surgery can take anywhere from 2–6 months, sometimes even longer. And while that gives me hope, it’s also difficult knowing recovery and healing isn’t immediate.

Endometriosis has already taken so much from my life physically, mentally, and emotionally. I just want to feel like myself again someday. But for now, I’m continuing to trust God through this healing journey, stay consistent with pelvic floor physical therapy, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time. šŸ’›

I also wanted to share this because I know so many others silently struggle with chronic illness, chronic pain, endometriosis, fatigue, and invisible illnesses too. Healing is never linear, and every recovery journey looks different. If you’re going through something similar, please know you’re not alone. 🫶 #chronicillness #endometriosis #endometriosisawareness #chronicillnesswarrior #endometriosiswarrior
POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by binge reading psychological thriller books šŸ¤£šŸ“š

Since I’ve been laying around recovering with not much to do, I’ve spent most of my time completely hooked on some of the best psychological thriller books I’ve read in a while. Honestly, these twisty thriller novels have been the perfect distraction and now I need everyone to read them with me šŸ‘€ If you love dark thrillers, shocking endings, suspenseful books, and plot twists you NEVER see coming… add these to your TBR immediately!

šŸ“– My recent psychological thriller book recommendations:

1ļøāƒ£ Gray After Dark — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
I could NOT put this one down. Definitely my favorite thriller out of all of them! It had me on the edge of my seat from beginning to end and the twists were insane. Dark, suspenseful, creepy, and so addictive. If you love fast-paced psychological thrillers, this one is a MUST READ.

2ļøāƒ£ Drowning in Paper Flowers — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Another thriller that completely consumed me. Every time I thought I had it figured out, the story surprised me again. The ending?! Absolutely wild.

3ļøāƒ£ Her First Lie — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Such a fun and twisty thriller read! Plus there was briefly a character named Charity in it which made me weirdly excited because I NEVER find my name in books 🤣

4ļøāƒ£ The Bartender — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Loved this easy thriller read! It has multiple POVs which can sometimes lose me, but this one was done really well and kept me hooked the whole time.

5ļøāƒ£ The Missing Ones — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Probably my least favorite of the bunch, mainly because the multiple POVs got a little confusing for me. BUT the storyline was super dark, twisty, and entertaining the entire time.

If you’re into thriller books, psychological suspense novels, mystery books with shocking twists, or binge-worthy reads that keep you up way too late… save this list for later šŸ“šāœØ

Now tell me your favorite psychological thriller book because apparently this is my entire personality while I’m recovering šŸ˜‚ 

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Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Isl Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Island last month and already wishing we could go back! 🌓 Even though the weather didn’t exactly cooperate with us šŸ˜‚ we still found SO many fun things to do around the island and honestly had the best time exploring. From beautiful beaches and cozy restaurants to shopping, sightseeing, and hidden gems, there’s so much to experience on Hilton Head Island, even on chilly or rainy days!

I finally finished my full Hilton Head Island travel blog post too, and it’s packed with all of our favorite spots, things to do, where to eat, and tips for first-time visitors! If you’re planning a Hilton Head vacation, family beach trip, or weekend getaway to South Carolina, this guide will help you plan the perfect trip šŸ–ļøāœØ

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Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my favorite simple summer decor 🌸 There’s truly nothing prettier than fresh peony blooms brightening up the kitchen and making the whole house feel cozy, cottagecore, and cheerful. I only wish peony season lasted longer because these gorgeous flowers bloom way too fast! 🩷 Wishing you all a slow, happy Saturday filled with sunshine, fresh flowers, and little moments that make home feel special! #peonies #peoniesbouquet #peoniesofinstagram #peoniesaremyfavorite #peonieseason
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief šŸ’›

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me šŸ˜… So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady šŸ’« Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends šŸ¤

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

Perfect for:
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āœ”ļø Back patio styling
āœ”ļø Low-maintenance outdoor plants
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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free šŸ’›

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless šŸ™ŒšŸ»), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! šŸ˜†

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief šŸ™ Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🄹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery šŸ‘€

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count šŸ˜‚ because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM šŸ™ŒšŸ» and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge šŸ˜…

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing šŸ’› And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears šŸ™šŸ¼ #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
If quick, easy dinners are your love language righ If quick, easy dinners are your love language right now, this one’s for you šŸ™Œ

I’ve been OBSESSED with @hungryroot lately for simple, healthy meals, especially this chicken BBQ flatbread 🤤 With surgery coming up (and recovery after), I need meals that are fast, low-effort, and still taste amazing… and this checks every box.

Everything gets delivered straight to your door, and most meals are ready in 15 minutes or less šŸ™Œ No stress, no extra planning, just easy weeknight dinners you’ll actually look forward to.

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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t šŸ˜‚ I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time šŸ™ƒ

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier šŸ¤

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous šŸ˜… so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain šŸ™ŒšŸ» counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment ā€œendoā€ below and I’ll send them straight to you! šŸ˜‰ #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery šŸ˜…

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM šŸ˜…). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them šŸ™

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing šŸ’›

#endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #minimallyinvasivesurgery #endometriosiswarrior
Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it šŸ’›

@MinkyCouture has the softest, coziest luxury blankets and today is the BEST time to shop because my code CHARITYG gets you 60% OFF + FREE shipping on orders $100+ šŸ™Œ

Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself. Yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling—you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! Spring gardening is offici Flower Lovin’ Friends! 
Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed šŸ’š With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard šŸ™„ (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🄲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden šŸŒ±šŸ‘

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time šŸ˜‚)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins šŸŒæšŸ’›

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC šŸ¤

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was ā€œrare.ā€
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not ā€œjust a bad period.ā€
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands šŸ™šŸ¼ 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! šŸ’› #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
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How To Save Money

Hello friends, so today I thought I would share something a little different than usual with you all today. I am sharing all my tips about how to save money and what we do every month to hit our budget goals.

I figured now it’s more important than ever to share because of all the financial hardships people are facing due to COVID.

And it all kinda ties in together because I definitely gotta have a budget when it comes to home decor! Otherwise, I would spend way too much money on it! I’m not the only one, right?!

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1. Determine Your Monthly Budget

So the very first thing you got to do is set up your monthly budget obviously. Determine how much income you are making approximately each month and how much you are sending out in bills and necessities.

Then you can decide how much you have leftover to use for entertainment purposes.

Although, I have found that during this whole COVID situation, I am not spending as much money in this area. Either things are still closed, or the shops I frequently visit have low inventory every time I go so I can’t find anything!

So I guess there is kinda a silver lining to the COVID pandemic after all. However, that’s pretty bad that it’s taken a pandemic for me to quit shopping as much, don’t you agree?!

Examples of things to consider in your monthly budget:

  • Housing
  • Utilities
  • Food
  • Savings
  • Charitable Gifts
  • Transportation
  • Clothing
  • Medical/Health
  • Personal
  • Debts
  • Recreation
Determine Your Monthly Budget

2. Use a Budget Calculator

I recently discovered that you can use an online budget calculator to help you figure out your monthly budget and how you can save money more easily.

I can’t believe I haven’t tried one of these out before! It really is a game changer. I am a very visual person and I like to see everything laid out in front of me and Pigly does just that for you!

My favorite one to use is the Personal Budget Planner. This particular calculator helps you estimate your biweekly, monthly, or annual income and then it converts it into the guidelines set up by Dave Ramsey to see just how your spending compares to others!

How cool is that?! That way you can really know if you are overspending or if you are right on track!

The percentages are a great guideline and they change appropriately based on income level and age group.

Using this calculator, you can set your percentages for each category initially, and at the bottom it will show you a total which will calculate how close to 100% you are. Then you can always adjust and change your spending habits to meet your current income.

Use A Budget Calculator

3. Stick With It

I know it may be hard at first, but once you get in the habit of really sticking to your budget and following through, you will definitely start to see the money saving results!

I always tend to find something I want to buy when I am nearing the end of my monthly “fun money”, but I always think to myself, “Is it really worth blowing the budget I worked so hard for to buy this?!”

And mostly every single time, the answer is no.

I try to write down things I really want and plan them out throughout different months and purchase them then. That way I am not overspending all in one month.

I think planning is key when you are talking about how to save money. It doesn’t mean you can’t ever spend money, just that you should be smart about it and only buy what is really necessary and what you really want!

Stick With It

Conclusion

I think that everyone struggles with budget from time to time. And like I said earlier, especially now with everything that’s going on!

So it’s totally okay to give yourself some grace and learn as you go each month on how you can better save your money.

Pigly has been such a great resource for me and they have so many other budget calculator options such as a savings calculator, interest withdrawal, retirement savings measuring your net worth, and reaching your savings goals.

If you’re struggling with budgeting, go check them out and see all of their great and FREE resources and determine which ones will help you out the best! As always, thanks so much for stopping by and have a lovely day my friends!

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Comments

  1. Change of Tomorrow says

    July 24, 2020 at 10:24 am

    Awesome post. Maintaining budget is so crucial always.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 5:21 pm

      Thank you! It sure is!

      Reply
  2. Chloe says

    July 24, 2020 at 1:14 pm

    I like to create a month budget and work out what bills will be going out throughout the month so that I know what I have left. I also have a few savings accounts that I try to use towards things in the future. It was definitely difficult to begin with especially when I first started working and I wanted to spend my money. But over the years, I’ve learnt to budget and workout what I can spend and save etc.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 5:22 pm

      Yes! Exactly. The more often you do it, the easier it becomes! Thanks for reading!

      Reply
  3. Mrs D says

    July 24, 2020 at 1:20 pm

    Great money saving tips!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 5:24 pm

      Thank you so much! I appreciate it!

      Reply
  4. Kalin says

    July 24, 2020 at 1:21 pm

    The Planning Calculator sounds reallyyy handy and I have it bookmarked so I don’t forget lol. Dave Ramsey has amazing financial tips, and as much as we “budget” we don’t really have a set budget. Thanks for sharing these resources!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 5:26 pm

      Of course! And yes the calculator is definitely amazing for sure!

      Reply
  5. JENISH JOYAL J says

    July 24, 2020 at 1:40 pm

    These are really useful tips šŸ˜‡
    Thank you for sharing this post šŸ˜‡

    JENISH | https://knowafactfromj.blogspot.com

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 7:45 pm

      Thank you so much! I am so glad you found it to be useful!

      Reply
  6. Gabby says

    July 24, 2020 at 3:41 pm

    I’ve only started using a budget planner ( a simple printable I created for myself) this year, but I can see how much it’s helped me save money. I’ve never used a budget calculator before, but I definitely need to try one. Thanks for sharing!

    Much love always,
    GABBY | http://www.gabbyabigaill.com

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    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 5:28 pm

      No problem! Yes printing it out and writing it all down is always a great option too!

      Reply
  7. Giulia says

    July 24, 2020 at 4:19 pm

    I had no idea you could use a budget planner like this. I so need to do this! Thanks for the tip.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 5:31 pm

      Yes it makes it so much easier! And no problem! Glad I could help!

      Reply
  8. Jenny in Neverland says

    July 24, 2020 at 5:37 pm

    Simple but effective tips. We should really realise the power of budgeting!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 7:43 pm

      Yes it really is so important! Thanks for reading!

      Reply
  9. Angie says

    July 24, 2020 at 5:53 pm

    Using a budget planner is a great idea! I am always falling into the trap of impulse buying and have been trying to kick that habit!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 24, 2020 at 7:40 pm

      Oh yes! That can be a hard habit to kick! I am the opposite and tend to overthink things a lot before actually purchasing them lol

      Reply
  10. Aislinn Short says

    July 24, 2020 at 7:59 pm

    I don’t know about everyone else, but ever since quarantine I sometimes struggle to find things to do and then I find I’m more likely to online ship, which is doing major damage to my budgeting 😬 however reading this post really helped me out and gave me some ideas to budget going forward! Thank you for sharing!šŸ¤—

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 12:07 pm

      Yes! I definitely struggled with that during quarantine too! Thankfully, I am back to work so now it isn’t as bad!

      Reply
  11. Manasa says

    July 25, 2020 at 1:36 am

    I have just started earning money and this post was literally so so so helpful! I need to work on saving money. I am an automatic spender šŸ™‚ ! Loved these tips!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 12:07 pm

      Lol I am too! My hubby has to help me with the budget a lot and keep me more on track!

      Reply
  12. Nancy says

    July 25, 2020 at 4:16 am

    I love these different tips on saving money! Things can add up so quick!! It is so important to know all of your expenses and have a way to keep track of your money. I love using apps like Mint! So important to be committed too, especially if you have a goal you want to meet!

    Nancy ✨ exquisitely.me

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 12:10 pm

      Yes it is so important for sure! Thanks for stopping by!

      Reply
  13. Kat says

    July 25, 2020 at 9:20 am

    I NEED that calculator! I didn’t even know that was a thing so thank you so much!!!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 12:12 pm

      Yes! It is so helpful for sure!

      Reply
  14. Hanna says

    July 25, 2020 at 12:17 pm

    Wow this is good! Definitely A good read for me since I’m a college student!!! Thank you for sharing!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 8:32 pm

      Awe yay! I am glad you found it useful then!

      Reply
  15. Nons says

    July 25, 2020 at 12:26 pm

    Setting a budget is one thing I am good at, but sticking to it is something else entirely lol. Great post!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 8:34 pm

      Lol yes! Sticking to it is what is challenging for sure!

      Reply
  16. Mrs. P&P says

    July 25, 2020 at 1:55 pm

    I love playing with budget numbers in calculators! I’ll have to try out the ones you listed here. They sound pretty cool.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 8:35 pm

      Yes you should try them out then! Hopefully you will like them too!

      Reply
  17. Narasinh Purohit says

    July 25, 2020 at 2:39 pm

    Liked the informative post. Thanks.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 25, 2020 at 8:38 pm

      Glad you enjoyed it!

      Reply
  18. Lisa | Mind and Body Intertwined says

    July 26, 2020 at 6:34 am

    Great post! I had never heard of these budget calculators before so I’m looking forward to trying them out šŸ‘ŒšŸ»

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 26, 2020 at 11:03 am

      Glad you enjoyed it! I hope it helps you too!

      Reply
  19. Roni says

    July 26, 2020 at 1:25 pm

    I recently started breaking my monthly budget down into individual weekly budgets and it absolutely revolutionalised the way I handle my spending and savings – I found it a lot more manageable to stick to a weekly budget as opposed to a monthly one šŸ™‚ x

    Roni | myelevatedexistence.com

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    • Charity Gentry says

      July 26, 2020 at 4:50 pm

      That’s a great idea too! Thanks for sharing.

      Reply
  20. Sharon says

    July 26, 2020 at 1:50 pm

    Great tips. I have a budget need to find a budget calculator.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 26, 2020 at 4:49 pm

      Thank you! You need to try them out and see if they work for you too!

      Reply
  21. Navita Bhatia says

    July 26, 2020 at 6:14 pm

    Though I am not much into making a budget, still I keep in mind how much I need to spend a particular thing. Thanks for these wonderful handy tips.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 26, 2020 at 10:01 pm

      No problem! Glad you enjoyed them!

      Reply
  22. Richie says

    July 26, 2020 at 9:56 pm

    Hi Charity. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head there. Three simple, but vital, steps to take. (btw, we’re old school and tend to use a spreadsheet for our budgeting!)

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 26, 2020 at 10:02 pm

      Thank you so much! And using a spreadsheet always works too!

      Reply
  23. Ellis James Designs says

    July 27, 2020 at 9:27 am

    Great 3 tips! Budgeting is definitely crucial, and so is keeping with it, no matter what you decide to save money!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 27, 2020 at 10:53 pm

      Yes I totally agree! It is very important to pay attention to it for sure!

      Reply
  24. claire says

    July 27, 2020 at 10:41 am

    During covid has been the perfect time to start thinking about money. We have as a family been able to save a lot of money and I’d like to continue this as things return to almost normal.

    Setting a budget will really help this, thank you for sharing. Its really helpful info x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 27, 2020 at 10:55 pm

      I am so glad you found it helpful! And yes, COVID definitely got us thinking more about budgeting for the future too. It was really eye opening for sure!

      Reply
  25. lifestyleseason says

    July 27, 2020 at 11:38 am

    Amazing post! Thank you for sharing! This is very useful!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 27, 2020 at 10:59 pm

      Thank you. I am so glad you found it to be useful!

      Reply
  26. Sarah says

    July 27, 2020 at 9:32 pm

    Great tips! I organise my budget as early as possible and I know through lockdown it became a bit of a mess but it’s back to being organised better.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 27, 2020 at 11:08 pm

      That’s good! Lockdown threw us all off I think!

      Reply
  27. Brooke says

    July 28, 2020 at 11:24 am

    I know a lot about personal finance and budgeting, but I have never even heard of Pigly. I’ll have to check it out. Thanks for the info.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 10:42 pm

      No problem! You should definitely check them out and see what you think!

      Reply
  28. Natalie Barletta says

    July 28, 2020 at 11:24 am

    These are amazing tips! I’m still struggling to budget, but every week I get better and better. Thank you for sharing!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 10:43 pm

      No problem! Glad you enjoyed it and found it useful!

      Reply
  29. Deandra says

    July 28, 2020 at 10:58 pm

    I’m TERRIBLE with budgeting but I did get a budget planner. I’m not the best at using it, but i’m working on it.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 10:43 pm

      That’s awesome! At least you got one to use! That’s the first step!

      Reply
  30. Riana Ang-Canning says

    July 29, 2020 at 1:40 am

    Great tips! We do a monthly money meeting where we talk about finances at the end of the month. But we really need to start setting a budget at the beginning.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 10:44 pm

      Yes! It always helps to set a budget right at the beginning for sure!

      Reply
  31. Toby Raymon says

    July 29, 2020 at 10:35 am

    It is so important to think twice before spending money on anything. And if it isn’t necessary one should stop themselves from purchasing it.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 10:46 pm

      I totally agree with you! That is the best way to stay on budget I think!

      Reply
  32. Britt K says

    July 29, 2020 at 5:19 pm

    Great advice and I love that you mentioned the importance of sticking with your plan. I have seen far too many people set a GREAT budget plan in motion only to forget about it shortly thereafter. Or those who don’t fully stick to it, figuring a little off budget spending here or there won’t matter (although it can add up and fast). It only works if you’re willing to put in the work!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 10:47 pm

      Exactly! I totally agree, you just gotta put in the work to make it work for sure! Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts!

      Reply
  33. Cindi | aneasyjourney says

    July 29, 2020 at 10:57 pm

    So helpful, especially now! We always are looking for new & improved ways to budget & save $- definitely looking at pigly! Thank you 😊

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 29, 2020 at 11:03 pm

      I am so glad you thought so! Definitely check them out and see what you think!

      Reply
  34. Shikha says

    July 30, 2020 at 9:56 am

    Really clean and well organised.

    A few days back I have also written a post on ’How to Plan Budget’ after realising the importance of budget planning. It should be done continuously and consistently.

    This is really informative. Thanks for share.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      July 31, 2020 at 9:52 am

      Yes it definitely should! Thanks for reading, glad you enjoyed it!

      Reply
  35. Bri C says

    August 4, 2020 at 8:37 pm

    This post is super helpful! New to the budgeting world so sometimes I can be really hard on myself when I slip up but ultimately it’s been an extremely positive and confidence boosting journey. I’ll be sure to look back over these tips every now and then to keep myself on track. Great post!!
    xo Bri

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    • Charity Gentry says

      August 10, 2020 at 10:22 pm

      Awe thank you so much Bri. I really appreciate it and I am so glad you thought it was helpful!

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Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery! Honestly, the best birthday gift I could ask for is finally being cleared to soak in the hot tub and take my scalding hot baths again šŸ˜‚ If you know me, then you know how much I’ve missed my hot baths during recovery these past two weeks!

At first, I was told no soaking for 4 weeks, so finding out it was only 2 weeks truly felt like a win  So today’s plans include lots of relaxing, healing, hot tub time, hanging out with my hubby, and continuing to take it easy while my body recovers from surgery.

And because life has a sense of humor, I also have pelvic floor physical therapy today too… nothing says ā€œhappy 33rd birthdayā€ quite like a PT appointment 🤣 But honestly, I’m just thankful to be healing, feeling better, and moving forward in my endometriosis recovery journey one day at a time. šŸ’›

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I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagr I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagram and honestly… this one hit a little too close to home. šŸ’”

As many of you know, I’m now a little over 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery. While my surgery was successful and my surgeon did remove the endometriosis, I’m still dealing with many of the same symptoms I had before surgery. And if I’m being honest, that’s been really hard mentally and emotionally.

One of my biggest fears is that my endometriosis surgery won’t fully help and that the chronic pain, back pain, insomnia, and fatigue never truly go away. I’ve heard from so many women in the endometriosis community that healing after excision surgery can take anywhere from 2–6 months, sometimes even longer. And while that gives me hope, it’s also difficult knowing recovery and healing isn’t immediate.

Endometriosis has already taken so much from my life physically, mentally, and emotionally. I just want to feel like myself again someday. But for now, I’m continuing to trust God through this healing journey, stay consistent with pelvic floor physical therapy, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time. šŸ’›

I also wanted to share this because I know so many others silently struggle with chronic illness, chronic pain, endometriosis, fatigue, and invisible illnesses too. Healing is never linear, and every recovery journey looks different. If you’re going through something similar, please know you’re not alone. 🫶 #chronicillness #endometriosis #endometriosisawareness #chronicillnesswarrior #endometriosiswarrior
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Loved this easy thriller read! It has multiple POVs which can sometimes lose me, but this one was done really well and kept me hooked the whole time.

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Probably my least favorite of the bunch, mainly because the multiple POVs got a little confusing for me. BUT the storyline was super dark, twisty, and entertaining the entire time.

If you’re into thriller books, psychological suspense novels, mystery books with shocking twists, or binge-worthy reads that keep you up way too late… save this list for later šŸ“šāœØ

Now tell me your favorite psychological thriller book because apparently this is my entire personality while I’m recovering šŸ˜‚ 

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I finally finished my full Hilton Head Island travel blog post too, and it’s packed with all of our favorite spots, things to do, where to eat, and tips for first-time visitors! If you’re planning a Hilton Head vacation, family beach trip, or weekend getaway to South Carolina, this guide will help you plan the perfect trip šŸ–ļøāœØ

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At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief šŸ’›

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me šŸ˜… So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady šŸ’« Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends šŸ¤

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free šŸ’›

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless šŸ™ŒšŸ»), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! šŸ˜†

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief šŸ™ Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🄹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery šŸ‘€

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count šŸ˜‚ because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM šŸ™ŒšŸ» and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge šŸ˜…

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing šŸ’› And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears šŸ™šŸ¼ #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t šŸ˜‚ I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time šŸ™ƒ

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier šŸ¤

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous šŸ˜… so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain šŸ™ŒšŸ» counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment ā€œendoā€ below and I’ll send them straight to you! šŸ˜‰ #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery šŸ˜…

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM šŸ˜…). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them šŸ™

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing šŸ’›

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Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself. Yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

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Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed šŸ’š With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard šŸ™„ (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🄲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden šŸŒ±šŸ‘

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time šŸ˜‚)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins šŸŒæšŸ’›

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC šŸ¤

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was ā€œrare.ā€
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not ā€œjust a bad period.ā€
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands šŸ™šŸ¼ 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! šŸ’› #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
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