Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 Chapter 33 is here šŸŽ‰ And today officially marks 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery! Honestly, the best birthday gift I could ask for is finally being cleared to soak in the hot tub and take my scalding hot baths again šŸ˜‚ If you know me, then you know how much I’ve missed my hot baths during recovery these past two weeks!

At first, I was told no soaking for 4 weeks, so finding out it was only 2 weeks truly felt like a win  So today’s plans include lots of relaxing, healing, hot tub time, hanging out with my hubby, and continuing to take it easy while my body recovers from surgery.

And because life has a sense of humor, I also have pelvic floor physical therapy today too… nothing says ā€œhappy 33rd birthdayā€ quite like a PT appointment 🤣 But honestly, I’m just thankful to be healing, feeling better, and moving forward in my endometriosis recovery journey one day at a time. šŸ’›

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I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagr I saw this ā€œTop 5 Horror Storiesā€ trend on Instagram and honestly… this one hit a little too close to home. šŸ’”

As many of you know, I’m now a little over 2 weeks post-op from my endometriosis excision surgery. While my surgery was successful and my surgeon did remove the endometriosis, I’m still dealing with many of the same symptoms I had before surgery. And if I’m being honest, that’s been really hard mentally and emotionally.

One of my biggest fears is that my endometriosis surgery won’t fully help and that the chronic pain, back pain, insomnia, and fatigue never truly go away. I’ve heard from so many women in the endometriosis community that healing after excision surgery can take anywhere from 2–6 months, sometimes even longer. And while that gives me hope, it’s also difficult knowing recovery and healing isn’t immediate.

Endometriosis has already taken so much from my life physically, mentally, and emotionally. I just want to feel like myself again someday. But for now, I’m continuing to trust God through this healing journey, stay consistent with pelvic floor physical therapy, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time. šŸ’›

I also wanted to share this because I know so many others silently struggle with chronic illness, chronic pain, endometriosis, fatigue, and invisible illnesses too. Healing is never linear, and every recovery journey looks different. If you’re going through something similar, please know you’re not alone. 🫶 #chronicillness #endometriosis #endometriosisawareness #chronicillnesswarrior #endometriosiswarrior
POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by POV: You’re stuck recovering in bed so you cope by binge reading psychological thriller books šŸ¤£šŸ“š

Since I’ve been laying around recovering with not much to do, I’ve spent most of my time completely hooked on some of the best psychological thriller books I’ve read in a while. Honestly, these twisty thriller novels have been the perfect distraction and now I need everyone to read them with me šŸ‘€ If you love dark thrillers, shocking endings, suspenseful books, and plot twists you NEVER see coming… add these to your TBR immediately!

šŸ“– My recent psychological thriller book recommendations:

1ļøāƒ£ Gray After Dark — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
I could NOT put this one down. Definitely my favorite thriller out of all of them! It had me on the edge of my seat from beginning to end and the twists were insane. Dark, suspenseful, creepy, and so addictive. If you love fast-paced psychological thrillers, this one is a MUST READ.

2ļøāƒ£ Drowning in Paper Flowers — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Another thriller that completely consumed me. Every time I thought I had it figured out, the story surprised me again. The ending?! Absolutely wild.

3ļøāƒ£ Her First Lie — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Such a fun and twisty thriller read! Plus there was briefly a character named Charity in it which made me weirdly excited because I NEVER find my name in books 🤣

4ļøāƒ£ The Bartender — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Loved this easy thriller read! It has multiple POVs which can sometimes lose me, but this one was done really well and kept me hooked the whole time.

5ļøāƒ£ The Missing Ones — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Probably my least favorite of the bunch, mainly because the multiple POVs got a little confusing for me. BUT the storyline was super dark, twisty, and entertaining the entire time.

If you’re into thriller books, psychological suspense novels, mystery books with shocking twists, or binge-worthy reads that keep you up way too late… save this list for later šŸ“šāœØ

Now tell me your favorite psychological thriller book because apparently this is my entire personality while I’m recovering šŸ˜‚ 

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Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Isl Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Island last month and already wishing we could go back! 🌓 Even though the weather didn’t exactly cooperate with us šŸ˜‚ we still found SO many fun things to do around the island and honestly had the best time exploring. From beautiful beaches and cozy restaurants to shopping, sightseeing, and hidden gems, there’s so much to experience on Hilton Head Island, even on chilly or rainy days!

I finally finished my full Hilton Head Island travel blog post too, and it’s packed with all of our favorite spots, things to do, where to eat, and tips for first-time visitors! If you’re planning a Hilton Head vacation, family beach trip, or weekend getaway to South Carolina, this guide will help you plan the perfect trip šŸ–ļøāœØ

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Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my favorite simple summer decor 🌸 There’s truly nothing prettier than fresh peony blooms brightening up the kitchen and making the whole house feel cozy, cottagecore, and cheerful. I only wish peony season lasted longer because these gorgeous flowers bloom way too fast! 🩷 Wishing you all a slow, happy Saturday filled with sunshine, fresh flowers, and little moments that make home feel special! #peonies #peoniesbouquet #peoniesofinstagram #peoniesaremyfavorite #peonieseason
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief šŸ’›

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me šŸ˜… So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady šŸ’« Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends šŸ¤

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

Perfect for:
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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free šŸ’›

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless šŸ™ŒšŸ»), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! šŸ˜†

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief šŸ™ Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🄹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery šŸ‘€

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count šŸ˜‚ because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM šŸ™ŒšŸ» and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge šŸ˜…

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing šŸ’› And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears šŸ™šŸ¼ #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
If quick, easy dinners are your love language righ If quick, easy dinners are your love language right now, this one’s for you šŸ™Œ

I’ve been OBSESSED with @hungryroot lately for simple, healthy meals, especially this chicken BBQ flatbread 🤤 With surgery coming up (and recovery after), I need meals that are fast, low-effort, and still taste amazing… and this checks every box.

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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t šŸ˜‚ I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time šŸ™ƒ

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier šŸ¤

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous šŸ˜… so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain šŸ™ŒšŸ» counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment ā€œendoā€ below and I’ll send them straight to you! šŸ˜‰ #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery šŸ˜…

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM šŸ˜…). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them šŸ™

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing šŸ’›

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Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself. Yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling—you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! Spring gardening is offici Flower Lovin’ Friends! 
Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed šŸ’š With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard šŸ™„ (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🄲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden šŸŒ±šŸ‘

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time šŸ˜‚)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins šŸŒæšŸ’›

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC šŸ¤

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was ā€œrare.ā€
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not ā€œjust a bad period.ā€
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands šŸ™šŸ¼ 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! šŸ’› #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
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Home Improvement · February 27, 2021

My First Time Using Wallpaper

If you remember from my last post, I shared all about the DIY Shiplap Wall we did for Toby’s room. So now I am going to share with you all about my first time using wallpaper.

We decided that next to the shiplap wall, we wanted to do something fun and different there.

At the time, wallpaper seemed like a good idea. But y’all, I gotta tell you, this was probably the hardest project we have ever done together! Wallpaper is no joke!

I think it may be because we ended up getting the pre-pasted kind and not the peel and stick kind. But more on that later. At least the end result turned out okay!

I figured it would be fun to share the process with you and go more in depth with everything. In case you are thinking about using wallpaper for the first time too!

First time using wallpaper
Here is a view of the finished and painted wallpaper!

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Supplies Needed:

  • Wallpaper (I used a textured, paintable wallpaper option)
  • Sharp knife to cut wallpaper
  • Sponge for applying water to the back of the wallpaper
  • Spray bottle to wet the wall before applying wallpaper
Paintable Wallpaper
This is the exact wallpaper that I used for this space. I will link a few other similar paintable wallpaper options for you below as well:

Measure and Cut

Once you have gathered all your supplies, now’s the time to measure the wall and begin to cut out the wallpaper.

We used a tape measure to get the right height for the wall. Then we placed the tap measure right onto the wallpaper and traced a line on the back so we knew where to cut it.

Measuring the Wallpaper
Measuring and cutting the wallpaper here.

You definitely want to overbuy on your wallpaper. We ended up getting plenty of extra rolls just in case we had some mess ups.

Especially, since this was our first time using wallpaper. And boy, did we have some mess ups during this process!

But thankfully, we still had two full rolls leftover and we were able to return them and get some money back too which is always nice!

Applying the Wallpaper to the Wall

So the cutting and measuring was super simple and easy compared to this next part. We ended up trying two different methods of applying the wallpaper to the wall.

Both weren’t exactly easy, but we ended up figuring it out enough to make it work.

I will go in to the pros and cons for each method below that way you can decide what you would want to do in this situation.

As I mentioned earlier, this wallpaper was pre-pasted. That means you have to apply water to the back of the paper to activate the paste.

As you can imagine, this is messy and tedious. I believe with peel and stick wallpaper, you do not have to do this.

Although, I cannot say for sure because again, this is my first time using wallpaper of any kind. But, from what I’ve seen, I think peel and stick may be an easier option for sure.

Method 1: Activate Wallpaper Paste With Sponge

With this method, we ended up getting a bucket full of water and a sponge. Then, we would lay out our already measured strips of wallpaper and activate the paste by using the wet sponge on the back.

This was messy and time consuming, but it seemed to work out okay. Before we would attach it to the wall, we also sprayed down the wall with water as well.

Spraying the Wall
We just used a plastic spray bottle to spray the wall down.

I will say by doing this method, it didn’t seem to really activate the paste all the way. I felt like we couldn’t get it wet enough and therefore it wasn’t really sticky enough to adhere perfectly to the wall.

We noticed a few bubbles even after smoothing the wallpaper down.

First strip of wallpaper on wall
We finally got the first strip of wallpaper up!

Method 2: Soak Wallpaper in Bin to Activate Paste

I feel like we had the least success with this other method that we tried. We thought since it wasn’t getting wet enough from the sponge, that maybe we should just soak it for a few minutes.

I got a big storage container and filled it with water. Then, we placed a strip of wallpaper in it until it was fully submerged.

We let it soak for about 5 minutes and then pulled it out. Now, if you thought the other method was messy, this was way worse!

Soaking the wallpaper in container
Here is the set up we used for soaking the wallpaper. Even with laying a towel down, there was still a lot of water that went everywhere!

By doing it this way, we ended up losing a few strips of wallpaper too. It got too wet and then when we would try to adhere it to the wall, it would rip.

I think we only got one strip on after doing it this way. And then after two more failed attempts, we ditched this method and went back to the first one.

Tips and Tricks for Your First Time Using Wallpaper

As I mentioned above, we ended up going back to the first method we tried. It worked for the rest of the wall but here are some things I wish that I knew beforehand:

  • Really get the back of the wallpaper wet with the sponge. Don’t be afraid to get it too wet with this method. I think that’s where we went wrong the first couple of times since we didn’t get it wet enough.
    • Also, really wet the wall good too. The spray bottle wasn’t really enough, so we ended up using the sponge to wet the wall too before applying the wallpaper.

  • Cut the strips a little longer than you actually need them for. Because when you line them up on the wall, you want them to match up. You can always use a knife to trim off the excess as well.

  • Take a break when you need to and be patient. This process was pretty difficult for us to do. It was honestly probably one of the harder DIYs we have tackled. So obviously, we got a little frustrated and confused since we have never done this before. When you are feeling overwhelmed, it’s important to take a step back and relax!

  • When smoothing the wallpaper out, use medium pressure. If you’re too aggressive with it, the wallpaper could tear or rip. And not putting enough pressure on it will cause it not to adhere well to the wall. We ended up using the wet sponge again too to help smooth everything out and make it stick a little better.
Smoothing the Wallpaper
Here my hubby is smoothing over the wallpaper with the sponge as well.
  • Also, don’t worry if your wallpaper doesn’t match up perfectly on the top or bottom. As you can see in the picture below, it’s definitely not centered on the top. But, we ended up adding some trim to it and now you can’t even tell. Plus, the trim really made the wallpaper pop!
Add Trim to the Wallpaper
You can see how uneven it is on the top here. It’s a simple fix with some trim to hide it!

Paint the Wallpaper

Now, this part is totally optional. And especially if you are using a peel and stick kind of wallpaper, you probably don’t need to paint it.

This wallpaper is paintable and I knew that going into it. I thought it would be fun to paint it once it was all done. Again, I was wrong!

Finished Wallpaper
The wallpaper is all finished here! It’s beautiful white, but I wanted to give it a pop of color. Especially since it is beside the white shiplap wall.

I probably would have kept it the original white if it wasn’t beside the white shiplap wall. But I wanted a contrast so I decided to go ahead and paint it.

The only problem with painting this wallpaper was that you couldn’t use a roller. It’s textured and 3D so I had to use a paintbrush and really get into all the nooks and crannies of the wallpaper.

All Ready to Paint!
All ready to paint!

My first thought about color was to paint it black to make it really stand out against the shiplap wall. Although I was worried that it would be too dark and really make the space feel small.

And this is already such a small space, I didn’t want that. I ended up having some leftover wallpaper and I decided to cut out a few squares of it to test paint on.

I had some leftover paint already too and wanted to use what I had on hand to keep cost down.

Paint Samples on Wallpaper
Testing out the paint colors on some extra pieces of wallpaper.

I ended up liking Fusion Mineral Paint in Sacred Sage the best. If you remember, I shared all about Fusion Mineral Paint last year and even re-did a mirror with it as well too.

It’s honestly one of the better paint brands in my opinion and goes on so smooth! But for this wall, with all of the texture, it ended up taking me a total of three coats to fully finish it.

Painting the Wallpaper
Here it is after 2 coats. As you can see, it needed one more coat to fully complete it.

First Time Painting Wallpaper Tips:

  • When we placed the wallpaper on the wall, we noticed there were a few spots of bubbling. We didn’t think too much of it because it was past the door where you didn’t see it much. However, after I painted it and let it fully dry, the bubbles went away! I don’t really have the answer as to why it did this, but I was so relieved. I did notice that the bubbles got worse as I painted over them, but then when it dried overnight, they were all gone!

  • If you do end up getting a few air bubbles and they don’t come out after painting them, don’t fret! You can order a wallpaper repair kit from Amazon. That’s what we did at first too, but ended up sending it back after we realized the bubbling had disappeared.
    • To repair it, all you would need to do is get some wallpaper seam glue and some syringes. You would then fill the syringes up with glue and poke it into the bubbled area and release the glue. Then you would just smooth it out. There are several Youtube videos on this too that you can reference. I will link what we ordered though in case you’re curious too:

Conclusion

Well, I hope you enjoyed this post about my first time using wallpaper. I am glad we did it to say that we did it, but will we ever do it again? If I am being honest, probably not.

At least not the pre-pasted kind. I would be interested in trying the peel and stick kind to see how that differs. But that one was more expensive too so that’s another reason why we chose pre-pasted for this project. I am also very glad we did it in a small space and not some huge wall.

I would definitely recommend starting in a smaller space too if it is your first time using wallpaper as well.

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All in all, I am happy that this part of the project is complete. And now we are one step closer to finishing Toby’s room! I don’t think he cares though about all the hard work that we have put into it so far!

Have y’all ever tried out wallpaper before? If so, what was your experience like? Did you love it or hate it? Let me know, I’m dying to hear!

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Comments

  1. Kayleigh Zara says

    March 3, 2021 at 11:12 am

    This looks so cool! I’ve personally not painted on wallpaper before so it was so interesting to read about! Thanks for sharing x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:12 am

      Thank you! I am so glad you thought so too!

      Reply
  2. Cristina Rosano says

    March 3, 2021 at 1:43 pm

    I love how this came out and I think that this wall changed the look of the room! I have never applied wallpaper but had quite. a lot of experience in taking it off when we moved with my family years ago and it’s no fun! Thank you for sharing x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:18 am

      Lol yeah I bet. I have no plans on removing this anytime soon!

      Reply
  3. Sue Berk Koch says

    March 3, 2021 at 3:26 pm

    You’re brave! Your end result is lovely, too.
    I haven’t ever put up wallpaper, but I did take it down, twice. It was such an experience that I wrote about it on my blog! (It was my second ever post!) I’ll include the link here, but it may scare people away from giving this a try…

    –Sue
    https://susanberkkoch.com/blog/sue-against-glue/

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:20 am

      Thank you so much! I am happy with how it turned out as well!

      Reply
  4. Lucy says

    March 3, 2021 at 4:05 pm

    It takes a lot of skill to put up wallpaper without it falling back down again and you did amazing! This is a lovely wallpaper pattern x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:20 am

      Thank you so much Lucy! It was a laborious process for sure, but I am so happy with the end result!

      Reply
  5. Tiffany McCullough - Metaphysical Mama says

    March 3, 2021 at 4:22 pm

    Wow! That looks great! When I was young, everyone wallpapered. It would usually take a couple tries to get the paper on straight and line up the pattern. Then painting walls became all the rage and we had to strip all the wallpaper off.
    I have to say though, the wallpaper from when I was young was not as nice as this and it definitely wasn’t paintable. I love it!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:23 am

      Lol yes it has changed a lot for sure! I love that it’s paintable too because you can really customize it that way!

      Reply
  6. Under Flowery Sky says

    March 3, 2021 at 5:50 pm

    Beautiful decor, looks so elegant..

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:23 am

      Thank you so much

      Reply
  7. Sarah says

    March 3, 2021 at 7:07 pm

    That looks really good!! I’ve been wanting to try wallpaper but I was worried it would be difficult. I didn’t even know you could get paintable wallpaper, either! Thanks for sharing. šŸ™‚

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:25 am

      Yes I didn’t know you could get it either until I saw it in store! I love that you can paint it and customize it that way!

      Reply
  8. Stephanie says

    March 3, 2021 at 9:26 pm

    Between the shiplap and the wallpaper, your cat’s little room is going to be the loveliest palace a kitty has ever had! I’m glad you have a space to use for “test runs” so to speak. You did a great job with the wallpaper!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:29 am

      Awe thank you so much! He definitely will have such a lovely kitty room! And I am definitely so happy to have had this room as a test run too! It was very helpful!

      Reply
  9. A Capone Connection says

    March 3, 2021 at 10:19 pm

    That wallpaper is awesome. I used to have that exact paper in my office on the ceiling. (It’s a law office). It was painted with a faux paint texhnique to look like a tin ceiling. I have had hundreds of clients comment on it and everyone thought it was a real tin ceiling. Great job on your first time using it!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 12:31 am

      Oh my gosh, we were just talking about how good this paper would look on our ceiling downstairs too! We would love to have like a tin ceiling like that too!

      Reply
  10. LetsTakeAMoment.com says

    March 4, 2021 at 3:16 am

    Wow, this looks like a big project. Thank you for taking the time to share these tips. 😊

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 11:49 am

      No problem at all! It was a big project but I am very happy with how it turned out!

      Reply
  11. Eleanor Jones says

    March 4, 2021 at 11:27 am

    I’ve never personally used wallpaper, but I do love the effect it adds to a room- almost an old-fashioned look! Thank you for sharing these tips to approaching wallpaper for the first time x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 4, 2021 at 11:50 am

      Thank you so much! I am happy with how it turned out, it was just kinda difficult to do lol

      Reply
  12. Karalee Shotola says

    March 4, 2021 at 1:00 pm

    I always thought wallpaper was easy to do, but I can see how using the pre-pasted wallpaper was challenging because it was either not enough wet enough or too wet. It’s great you bought extra & figured out what worked.
    I think it turned out great after you painted it, but I imagine it would take a LONG time to do a regular size room with this wallpaper.

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:51 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, it would take a VERY LONG time for a regular sized room. So I am so glad we decided to test it out first in a smaller space!

      Reply
  13. Fadima Mooneira says

    March 4, 2021 at 1:03 pm

    Using wallpaper to decorate your house is so cool. It gives an image to your house. Thank you for sharing this.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:52 pm

      Thank you. I love how it gave some texture to this wall too!

      Reply
  14. Ruth| Ruthiee loves Glamour says

    March 4, 2021 at 1:19 pm

    This looks so cool. I really love how it came out. We have been trying to renovate our home and we decided to get wallpapers for the wall. We haven’t gotten the wall papers yet but this post has definitely given me an insight on how to go about applying the wallpaper. By the way, the wallpaper you got looks so good.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:52 pm

      Thank you so much Ruth! It was a labor of love, but I am so happy with the finished product!

      Reply
  15. markstraveljournal says

    March 4, 2021 at 1:22 pm

    Wallpaper is great but almost forgotten. As you point out, it does require work but the result is fabulous with texture, patterns and color. It really can add a lot to a room as it did in your case. Thanks for the post,

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:53 pm

      Thank you so much! Yes, I think it was worth the work because it definitely made this space look amazing afterward!

      Reply
  16. Jenny in Neverland says

    March 4, 2021 at 1:49 pm

    Wow can’t believe this was your first time using wallpaper! We’ve always used wallpaper although I don’t have wallpaper in any of my rooms (bedroom and office) now. It can certainly be tricky and glad the bubbles went away! It looks fab šŸ™‚ xxx

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:53 pm

      Thank you so much Jenny. I have always been too scared to try it out! I am glad I finally did it though

      Reply
  17. Jodie | That Happy Reader says

    March 4, 2021 at 1:55 pm

    These are the projects that really test a marriage! I love your finished result and I love when issues like bubbles resolve themselves. Thanks for sharing.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:54 pm

      Lol they sure do! And we did this on Valentine’s Day weekend which probably wasn’t the best idea! But it all turned out just fine in the end!

      Reply
  18. Kia Singh says

    March 4, 2021 at 5:45 pm

    So much of detailing. I am definitely going to try this out.
    Thanks 😊

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:54 pm

      Thank you! You definitely should!

      Reply
  19. Kia Singh says

    March 4, 2021 at 6:00 pm

    Thanks for detailed article. I have been thinking to do it for quite a long time. Got the courage after reading your article.
    Thanks for sharing

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:54 pm

      I am so glad this gave you some courage then!

      Reply
  20. Katy Stephenson says

    March 5, 2021 at 11:20 am

    I’m about to order some wallpaper for our spare room so I’m so glad I stumbled across this! Definitely bookmarking to read again before we put it up!

    Katy | http://www.katystephenson.com | http://www.thegrownupsclub.com

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 5, 2021 at 3:55 pm

      Yay! So glad this could be so helpful to you then!

      Reply
  21. Narasinh Purohit says

    March 5, 2021 at 4:20 pm

    Thanks for sharing your experience in details. We opted for wallpaper. We only had to select and the rest was done by professionals.
    But wallpapers do give something afresh feeling, that is our experience.
    Thanks again.

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 6, 2021 at 8:49 pm

      Yes, if I ever do it again, I think I will hire professionals too! That’s definitely the way to go!

      Reply
  22. Jaya Avendel says

    March 5, 2021 at 9:36 pm

    Woo boy, you went in and you learned, and at least you had fun! The finished wall looks lovely and I love the print you chose; beside the shiplap wall it provides a welcome contrast.
    Thanks for sharing what you learned! If you are driven enough to do something the end result usually turns out satisfactorily. šŸ™‚

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 6, 2021 at 8:51 pm

      Thank you so much! That is very true! I am glad we stuck with it and it ended up being perfect!

      Reply
  23. Nancy says

    March 6, 2021 at 2:24 am

    It is great that you got to use wallpaper for the first time. Big plus when it is easy to apply – with just soaking the water. I never thought about painting wallpaper. Learned so much from this post!

    Nancy ✨ mdrnminimalists.com

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 6, 2021 at 8:52 pm

      Thank you so much Nancy! I am so glad you learned something from it too!

      Reply
  24. Graham Crosby says

    March 6, 2021 at 10:41 pm

    I’m full of admiration for you for having a go with wallpaper. I’ve lived in my house over 20 years and still haven’t found the courage or patience to give it a go! It looks great by the way!

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 7, 2021 at 5:20 pm

      Lol thank you so much! It does take a lot of work so it isn’t an easy feat at all! But I am so happy with how it turned out thankfully!

      Reply
  25. Tammy Miller says

    March 6, 2021 at 11:09 pm

    This is a great post. It been so long since I did wallpaper, it has just been painting the walls.

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 7, 2021 at 5:20 pm

      Thanks so much. It was fun to do something different!

      Reply
  26. Lisa | Mind and Body Intertwined says

    March 7, 2021 at 9:28 am

    Haha in my family we say that if you can put wallpaper on properly with your partner without fighting, your relationship can handle anything šŸ˜‚ we’ve actually stopped with wallpaper because of all the annoying things of it not sticking and bubbles and everything. However, it looks like you did a good job in the end 😁

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 7, 2021 at 5:26 pm

      Lol that is so very true. It is a marriage test for sure! And thank you so much. I am so happy it turned out okay in the end!

      Reply
  27. Alexandra says

    March 7, 2021 at 4:19 pm

    My husband and I did an accent wall with wall paper as well and my gosh was it ever a task! Ours wasn’t activated by water but we had to roll on the actual glue. We 100% had our moments of frustration lol, wall paper is no joke. Needless to say we probably will never do wall paper again unless its the peel n stick kind, lol. Yours turned our beautiful though, love the paint colour you chose!

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    • Charity Gentry says

      March 7, 2021 at 5:27 pm

      Oh my gosh that sounds terrible too. I totally agree. We are not planning on doing anymore wallpaper anytime soon lol

      Reply
  28. Della Driscoll says

    March 7, 2021 at 8:01 pm

    I’ve not used wallpaper before but this is a great and helpful post for newbies like me! Thank you for sharing – the wall looks fab x

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 9, 2021 at 12:58 am

      Thank you so much! So glad you found it to be helpful

      Reply
  29. Ellis James Designs says

    March 8, 2021 at 10:24 am

    Wallpaper is intimidating to me, like many, so this helped me learn more about using it! Turned out great, amazing job!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 9, 2021 at 12:58 am

      Thank you so much. It was super intimidating for me at first too!

      Reply
  30. Mehr Israan says

    March 8, 2021 at 10:56 am

    Love how this came out! Definitely need to try painting on wallpaper!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 9, 2021 at 12:59 am

      Thank you! It was a lot of fun

      Reply
  31. Heidi says

    March 9, 2021 at 7:06 am

    You are so brave to try wallpaper! I think it was smart to do it in a small space and I love that you were so honest about your experience. I especially like how you said to take a break if you get frustrated. That is so important. I think it looks wonderful and I’m sure Toby absolutely loves his room now! šŸ˜‰ Cats are the best!

    Reply
    • Charity Gentry says

      March 9, 2021 at 11:54 am

      Thank you so much. Cats definitely are the best! And I’m glad we started small in a little space too first!

      Reply
  32. Jennifer says

    May 6, 2021 at 8:19 am

    Bless your heart! I admire you for jumping in and learning. Next time will be easier!! I’m 72 years old & have wallpapered many times. I love wallpaper!! I have one pattern that I loved so much that I bought extra rolls and have used it on at least one wall in my bedroom in every house we’ve lived in!šŸ˜‚. One suggestion; Even if the paper is pre-pasted, always use wallpaper paste!! Set up 2 sawhorses with a board or piece of plywood longer than the height of your wall and a little wider than your paper. Brush paste on the entire back. One smooth coat will do and be sure to cover edges. ā€œBookā€ the paper by folding one short side up to the other short side. Smooth the paper together with your hand, but DON’T crease your paper in the middle! After about 3-5 min. Unfold and hang. Use a brayer (roller) to be sure paper is smooth, then go over with a damp sponge from middle to outside edges to remove any bubbles & remove any paste that may have gotten on the front of your paper. I’d also suggest you drop a plumb line (google how to) an inch or two shorter than the width of your paper, from the corner of your wall. Start your 1st paper on the plumb line then trim excess in the corner with a sharp exacto (or other) knife. Hope these ā€œtried & trueā€, old-time suggestions help!!

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    • Charity Gentry says

      May 7, 2021 at 3:26 pm

      Thank you so much! I will have to try out these tried and true suggestions if I ever attempt to do wallpaper again!

      Reply
  33. Brenda says

    May 7, 2021 at 3:25 pm

    I said more bad words putting up peel& stick wallpaper than I ever did with pre-pasted. You can slide the wallpaper around a bit to get it just where it needs to be, I was working with 8′ lengths of peel&stick and it was a nightmare. Yes, wallpapering is messy but can be beautiful when done. I have never done the paintable kind, but with “regular” wallpaper you want to make sure you are getting good quality vinyl coated paper and it does not tear when it is wet. Unfortunately I had experience with cheap wallpaper back in the day and learned my lesson.

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    • Charity Gentry says

      May 8, 2021 at 11:02 am

      Lol yes it can be such a nightmare! And that is some great info! Thanks so much for sharing those tips!

      Reply

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3ļøāƒ£ Her First Lie — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Such a fun and twisty thriller read! Plus there was briefly a character named Charity in it which made me weirdly excited because I NEVER find my name in books 🤣

4ļøāƒ£ The Bartender — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Loved this easy thriller read! It has multiple POVs which can sometimes lose me, but this one was done really well and kept me hooked the whole time.

5ļøāƒ£ The Missing Ones — ā­ļøā­ļøā­ļøā­ļø
Probably my least favorite of the bunch, mainly because the multiple POVs got a little confusing for me. BUT the storyline was super dark, twisty, and entertaining the entire time.

If you’re into thriller books, psychological suspense novels, mystery books with shocking twists, or binge-worthy reads that keep you up way too late… save this list for later šŸ“šāœØ

Now tell me your favorite psychological thriller book because apparently this is my entire personality while I’m recovering šŸ˜‚ 

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Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Isl Just reminiscing about our trip to Hilton Head Island last month and already wishing we could go back! 🌓 Even though the weather didn’t exactly cooperate with us šŸ˜‚ we still found SO many fun things to do around the island and honestly had the best time exploring. From beautiful beaches and cozy restaurants to shopping, sightseeing, and hidden gems, there’s so much to experience on Hilton Head Island, even on chilly or rainy days!

I finally finished my full Hilton Head Island travel blog post too, and it’s packed with all of our favorite spots, things to do, where to eat, and tips for first-time visitors! If you’re planning a Hilton Head vacation, family beach trip, or weekend getaway to South Carolina, this guide will help you plan the perfect trip šŸ–ļøāœØ

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Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my Fresh cut peonies in a mason jar might just be my favorite simple summer decor 🌸 There’s truly nothing prettier than fresh peony blooms brightening up the kitchen and making the whole house feel cozy, cottagecore, and cheerful. I only wish peony season lasted longer because these gorgeous flowers bloom way too fast! 🩷 Wishing you all a slow, happy Saturday filled with sunshine, fresh flowers, and little moments that make home feel special! #peonies #peoniesbouquet #peoniesofinstagram #peoniesaremyfavorite #peonieseason
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually en POV: You’re a cat mom and Easter never actually ends šŸ˜‚šŸ£ Months later and I’m STILL finding plastic Easter eggs hidden all over my house thanks to my cats. Apparently seasonal home decor is way more exciting than the basket full of actual cat toys I bought them 😹

At this point, my cats have turned my home into a year-round Easter egg hunt. One day it’s Easter eggs under the couch, the next it’s Christmas ornaments rolling down the hallway, and somehow little pumpkins disappear every fall too 🤣 If you have indoor cats, you already know that no cute decor is ever truly safe.

Honestly though, finding random Easter eggs around the house months later has become one of my favorite funny cat mom moments šŸ˜‚ I just wish my cats would at least start hiding money or candy inside them to make this surprise treasure hunt a little more rewarding next time 😜 #catmomlife #catmom #funnycat #funnycats #catmomproblems
I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! One week post-op from end Flower Lovin’ Friends! 

One week post-op from endometriosis excision surgery and finally starting to feel a little like myself again šŸ™ŒšŸ»

This past weekend was rough. Lots of pain and very little energy, but I’m happy to say I think I’m finally turning a corner. The intense pain has eased, and now it’s more soreness and discomfort (which I will gladly take over that pain any day!).

I also got my pathology report back and everything came back non-cancerous, just endometriosis, which is such a huge relief šŸ’›

The biggest struggle right now? Post-surgery fatigue is no joke. I’ll think I have enough energy to do something simple like water my flowers, and my body immediately humbles me šŸ˜… So I’m learning (slowly lol) to rest, listen to my body, and take recovery one day at a time.

Healing isn’t linear, but we’re getting there, slow and steady šŸ’« Thank you all so much for the love, prayers, and support… it truly means everything to me.

Happy Wednesday, friends šŸ¤

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I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much I loved these faux ferns on my front porch so much that I immediately ordered them for the back porch too šŸ™Œ and honestly… best decision ever.

No watering. No dying plants. No stress.
Especially while I’m still recovering from surgery—because let’s be real, plant care is not happening right now 🤣

These look SO real, add the perfect cozy touch to any outdoor space, and are completely maintenance-free. If you’ve been wanting that lush, green porch vibe without the upkeep… these are it.

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Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! Do you really wanna know where I was April 29th?! In surgery actually!! 🤣

I’ve been meaning to share an update since my surgery on Wednesday, but honestly, this recovery has been way harder than I expected. This was my second endometriosis surgery, but my first was just an ablation… and this time I had excision surgery. And when I say it feels like my insides went through a cheese grater… I wish I was kidding 🫠

But I have to take a moment to say how incredibly grateful I am for the team at UNC Hillsborough. From the moment I arrived, every single person who was in the OR came in, introduced themselves, reassured me, and truly cared. That kind of compassion in healthcare is rare, and I felt so at peace going into surgery.

My surgeon was absolutely amazing and believes she was able to remove all of my endometriosis šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ We were really concerned it had spread to my bowels based on my symptoms, but thankfully it hadn’t. There was a nodule just millimeters away (which was likely causing so much of my pain), but she was able to remove it safely, meaning I don’t need another surgery with a colorectal specialist, which was my biggest fear.

I go back on May 22 for my post-op appointment to talk about next steps and treatment options. Unfortunately, endometriosis has no cure… and it can come back. There’s still such a lack of research and funding for women dealing with this disease, and that’s something that needs to change.

It’s also heartbreaking that we had to travel 3.5 hours just to receive this level of care. After years of being dismissed and gaslit by doctors, I finally feel like I’m on the right path.

I’m so thankful for my husband and my family who have been by my side through all of this. I’m praying this surgery gives me years of relief and a chance to live more pain-free šŸ’›

If you’re struggling with endometriosis, I see you. You’re not alone. Please reach out to me if you are suffering too, I’d love to share more of my experience with you and help you the best way I can as well! #surgeryrecovery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #endometriosissupport #endowarrior
Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC a Alright y’all, I’ve officially checked in at UNC and I’m just waiting to be called back! They even moved up my arrival time (bless šŸ™ŒšŸ»), but I’ve still got a couple hours to sit here and let the nerves + hanger kick in. And also how sexy does this surgical cap look on me?! šŸ˜†

After a brutal pain flare last night, I am MORE than ready to kick endometriosis’ ass today and finally get some relief šŸ™ Time to evict everything that’s been causing all this chaos 😜

So help a girl out: drop your favorite distractions, funny stories, or literally anything to pass the time while I wait! Let’s do this!🫶 #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosissurgery #chronicillnesswarrior #excisionsurgery
Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and Final meal, last hot bath, last hot tub soak, and ALL the feels before surgery tomorrow 🄹✨

Just soaking in every little moment today before my endometriosis surgery tomorrow. Started the morning with a cozy breakfast + cappuccino date with my sweet mama at @yellowmugcoffeelounge - aka my last meal before surgery šŸ‘€

I’m usually not a big breakfast girl, but you already know I made it count šŸ˜‚ because pre-surgery rules = no food after 9 am this morning. Then I got the call that my arrival time moved up from 3:30 PM to 2:00 PM šŸ™ŒšŸ» and honestly… I’ll take that win. The sooner it starts, the sooner recovery begins.

Today is all about the little things I won’t be able to do for a few weeks; long, scalding hot baths, hot tub soaks, and just slowing down. If you know me, you know hot baths are my daily therapy, so not having them for 4 weeks might be the real challenge šŸ˜…

But surprisingly, I feel really calm and at peace heading into this. Just ready to get through surgery and start healing šŸ’› And I feel all the prayers coming through, so thank you guys so much for all your support and love!

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any abdominal surgery, drop your recovery tips below. I’m all ears šŸ™šŸ¼ #daybeforesurgery #endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #abdominalsurgery
If quick, easy dinners are your love language righ If quick, easy dinners are your love language right now, this one’s for you šŸ™Œ

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Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into A Instagram turned my last surgery prep video into Alvin & the Chipmunks 😭🤣

So if you saw my endometriosis surgery packing reel sounding like I inhaled helium all day… no you didn’t šŸ˜‚ I have NO idea what happened, but we’re rolling with it lol.

Since that was a fail, I put together a hospital bag essentials carousel for endometriosis surgery / laparoscopy / hysterectomy prep so you can actually hear (and see) everything clearly this time šŸ™ƒ

If you have endometriosis excision surgery or any kind of abdominal surgery coming up, this is everything I’m bringing to stay comfortable, prepared, and (hopefully) make recovery a little easier šŸ¤

We do have a 3.5 hour drive home after surgery, which honestly makes me a little nervous šŸ˜… so I’m trying to be extra prepared this time around.

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery before, what am I missing?!
What helped you the MOST during recovery?
Any must-have items for a long car ride home post-op?

I’m so ready to finally get this done and hopefully get some relief from endo pain šŸ™ŒšŸ» counting down the days!! And if you have a surgery like this coming up too and want my list of essentials sent your way, just comment ā€œendoā€ below and I’ll send them straight to you! šŸ˜‰ #minimallyinvasivesurgery #surgeryessentials #surgeryprep #endometriosissurgery #endometriosisexcision
POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails POV: You realize you have to remove your dip nails AND fast for 32+ hours before surgery šŸ˜…

I was honestly so sad taking off my dip powder nails for my upcoming endometriosis surgery next week. My natural nails have grown SO well with dip, but the second it comes off, they go right back to being super thin and fragile… and yep, one already broke 😭

But let’s be real… that’s not even the hardest part of surgery prep. I can’t eat anything after 9:00 AM the day before, and my surgery isn’t until late the NEXT day (arrival at 3:30 PM šŸ˜…). So we’re talking about a full 30+ hour fast before surgery… and I already know I’m about to be HANGRY 🫠

If you’ve had endometriosis surgery, hysterectomy, or any major surgery, tell me, how did you survive the fasting?! Drop your tips below because I need them šŸ™

Just Trying to stay calm, trust God, and remind myself this is one step closer to answers + healing šŸ’›

#endometriosis #endometriosissurgery #surgeryprep #minimallyinvasivesurgery #endometriosiswarrior
Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling, you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself. Yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift: soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single

Don’t wait, this sale is TODAY ONLY, so now’s the time to stock up and check Mother’s Day gifts off your list early! 

Still searching for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Stop scrolling—you just found it šŸ’›

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Whether you’re shopping for your mom, a new mom, or treating yourself (because you deserve it too šŸ˜‰), these blankets are seriously unmatched. I grabbed this gorgeous butter yellow blanket for myself—yellow is the official color for endometriosis, so it feels extra special šŸ’› and you already know it’s coming with me for my hospital stay next week.

If you or someone you love is going through surgery or recovery, these also make the perfect recovery gift—soft, comforting, and something they’ll use every single day.

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Flower Lovin’ Friends! Spring gardening is offici Flower Lovin’ Friends! 
Spring gardening is officially underway 🌸 and this past weekend turned into the best little dose of gardening therapy I didn’t know I needed šŸ’š With everything going on lately, getting outside, planting flowers, and soaking up that sunshine was exactly what my mind needed.

We may have gotten a little too confident with those 85° temps though… because just days later, the cold snap hit hard šŸ™„ (tell me why spring weather is like this??). But somehow, my flowers are still thriving 🌼✨

My garden seedlings on the other hand… not so much 🄲 BUT my sweet peppers are holding on strong and currently the real MVPs of the garden šŸŒ±šŸ‘

Gardening is definitely a learning process, especially with unpredictable spring weather, but I’m not giving up, just replanting and trying again (and maybe checking the forecast a little better next time šŸ˜‚)

If you’re starting your spring garden, let this be your reminder: be patient, expect a few setbacks, and celebrate the little wins šŸŒæšŸ’›

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I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surge I wanted to give you all an update on my pre-surgery appointment at UNC šŸ¤

If I’m being honest… I woke up feeling really heavy today. Not because the appointment went badly, it actually went so well. The doctors were incredibly kind, compassionate, and for the first time, I truly felt seen, heard, and validated in my pain. I could’ve cried happy tears.

But after going over all my symptoms, they told me something that honestly shook me, but didn’t surprise me because this is what I feared all along. There’s a strong possibility my endometriosis has spread to my bowels.

And that’s where the emotions hit.

I’m angry.
Angry that I had to drive 3.5 hours just to receive proper care.
Angry that when I first brought up these symptoms, I was dismissed and told it was ā€œrare.ā€
Angry that I lost months trying to find someone who would actually listen.
Angry that I wasn’t fully informed after my last surgery, that I didn’t even know endometriosis could spread to organs like the bladder… or beyond.

I had to fight for my own medical records.
I had to advocate for myself every step of the way.
And that shouldn’t be the reality for women’s healthcare.

So here’s where things stand: my surgery is scheduled for the 29th. During surgery, they’ll check my bowels. If the endometriosis is superficial, they can shave it off then. But if it’s deeper, I may need a second, more serious surgery with a colorectal specialist.

And yes… that possibility is scary. Because with that kind of surgery, you could end up with a colostomy bag which is my worst nightmare. 

But I’m also proud of myself for trusting my body and refusing to stay silent.

Endometriosis is not ā€œjust a bad period.ā€
It’s a full-body disease.
And more women need to know that.

I’m sharing this because I never want another woman to feel dismissed, unheard, or alone in this. Please listen to your body. Advocate for yourself. Keep pushing until someone listens.

Right now, I’m choosing faith over fear and trusting God that I’m in the right hands šŸ™šŸ¼ 

Thank you all so much for your constant love, prayers, and support. It truly means everything to me! šŸ’› #endometriosis #endometriosiswarrior #endometriosisawareness
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